Wow, y'all are wound a little tight! For the record, I did go to
Disneyland when I was a kid and I did ride Dumbo. I like Disney more than any of my family members. I don't have any children interested in riding Dumbo, so I don't have any, "Oh my kid has to wait in a long line" angst.
I don't care if everyone in the whole park rides Dumbo! What bothers me is the attitude of, "Why should I, an adult, have to miss out on ANYTHING at all just for a small kid?!" Well, because that's what adults do.
In our regular lives, we do so much of that. Maybe being on vacation, spending all that money, makes us all a little more determined to not miss anything. That's understandable. But I hope we aren't so consumed with "ME! ME! ME!" that we forget to make room for little ones at a parade or show, or take the last spot of the day in line for Cinderella, or pick up a little one's dropped toy or hat to keep for ourselves.
You get extra points for chatting up preschoolers in long lines to distract them. And major points for complimenting little princesses. I'm excited to be there, but most of my joy comes from seeing the wide eyed little ones, beside themselves because they're about to really meet Mickey Mouse!!