Vanessa- figmentfan814 ~ Happily Ever Wedding & 10th Anniversary VR Brunch #1 Added 8-10

Happy 6 month anniversary! I noticed it on your ticker :goodvibes It was so great running into you at Disney, BTW thanks for the fastpasses. I kicked Kris' butt on Buzz Lightyear!

So, when do we at least get to see some pictures from your big day? I think you could do a wedding day recap even if it doesn't include your whole trip ;)


I just started a new job this week and will have a whole lot more free time very soon. I'm hoping to get started on my report within the next two weeks. I just have to figure out how to upload my pics for everyone to see. Still haven't figured that one out:confused3
I am very glad you made use of our fastpasses, and even more glad that you kicked Kris' butt:cheer2:
I will be PMing you soon to ask about an upcoming trip Brad and I will be taking. I noticed you are from Michigan and we are supposed to be going there soon for a wedding. I'll PM you the rest...casue I need some insider info! Keep it coming girl!
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Vanessa do you have a video from your wedding. I would love to hear the song that your friend's DH sung. It looks very lovely from the words. I like how Wayne Brady sings too. I am so excited as the big day is coming soon. I totally wished I knew that you were able to get married at WDW because I so would have done that. Maybe one of kids will, hehe. But like I said I am having a VR for our 25th, only 13 more years but who's counting.;)

We won't have our video back for a while, but once we do I'll definitely post some links so you can check it out. Hey, it's never too early. The day after our wedding, my MOH sent me a text message asking if we were going to do a vow renewal in 10 years :rotfl:
 
I will be PMing you soon to ask about an upcoming trip Brad and I will be taking. I noticed you are from Michigan and we are supposed to be going there soon for a wedding. I'll PM you the rest...casue I need some insider info! Keep it coming girl!
Anna Marie:bride:

Definitely let me know if you have any questions, do you know what city the wedding is going to be held? Also, if you need any help with the photos I can give you some tips on uploading them too :goodvibes
 
What are the odds of this happening? Two of the airlines for our Hawaii honeymoon have closed due to bankruptcy within the last week. ATA and Aloha Airlines :scared1: We just got the stuff with Aloha fixed on Monday (switched to Hawaiian Air) and now I have to have my travel agent make arrangements because of ATA.

For those of you that didn't follow my planning journal, we were originally suppose to go to Hawaii right after we left Florida and we had to change it a month before we left, so this just adds to the fiascos related to this trip! Thankfully, we have trip insurance, but this trip has had one thing go wrong after another. We better really enjoy paradise once we get there! :flower1:
 

You will you will you will! We lived there for 12 years and it is the most relaxing laid back place ever!

As long as you don't have to swim there! :scared1:
 
What are the odds of this happening? Two of the airlines for our Hawaii honeymoon have closed due to bankruptcy within the last week. ATA and Aloha Airlines :scared1: We just got the stuff with Aloha fixed on Monday (switched to Hawaiian Air) and now I have to have my travel agent make arrangements because of ATA.

For those of you that didn't follow my planning journal, we were originally suppose to go to Hawaii right after we left Florida and we had to change it a month before we left, so this just adds to the fiascos related to this trip! Thankfully, we have trip insurance, but this trip has had one thing go wrong after another. We better really enjoy paradise once we get there! :flower1:


You'll certainly appreciate it once you get there! ;) There certainly has been a lot of bad luck regarding the trip. Do you know anyone that visited the islands and brought home some lava rock? That is supposed to be bad luck.
 
What are the odds of this happening? Two of the airlines for our Hawaii honeymoon have closed due to bankruptcy within the last week. ATA and Aloha Airlines :scared1: We just got the stuff with Aloha fixed on Monday (switched to Hawaiian Air) and now I have to have my travel agent make arrangements because of ATA.

For those of you that didn't follow my planning journal, we were originally suppose to go to Hawaii right after we left Florida and we had to change it a month before we left, so this just adds to the fiascos related to this trip! Thankfully, we have trip insurance, but this trip has had one thing go wrong after another. We better really enjoy paradise once we get there! :flower1:


I've just caught up with your trip report and its been absolutely fantastic! Everything looks like it was SOOO much fun!

After all you have been through over the last few months with your accident and the loss of Chris's Dad, you really DO deserve the honeymoon of a lifetime!! It is paradise on earth!! We went twice in 2006 (Yep, the credit card took a hammering) and I fell deeply in love with the place... and we'll be sure to go back one day.... Perhaps for our 10 year vow renewal.... or if I can't wait that long... 5 year!!

Can't wait to get the actual wedding! :-))))
 
oh Vanessa- sorry about the honeymoon drama! I'm sure it'll be worth it once you get there!

Cant wait for the next update!:goodvibes:
 
Hi

I've just read through you TR and its so great!:thumbsup2

Just wanted to ask, where did you get the hidden mickey info from that was in your welcome packs?

I think it'd be great to have something like that as my guests will be travelling from the UK and it will be many peoples first time in Disney.

Thank you, cant wait to read more.
 
You will you will you will! We lived there for 12 years and it is the most relaxing laid back place ever!

As long as you don't have to swim there! :scared1:

Sounds like you had a bad experience in the water. I’m definitely more a pool person than an ocean swimmer :goodvibes If anything we will just go out in boats.

You'll certainly appreciate it once you get there! ;) There certainly has been a lot of bad luck regarding the trip. Do you know anyone that visited the islands and brought home some lava rock? That is supposed to be bad luck.

Hmmm…..my parents honeymooned there, maybe I should ask them :confused:

I've just caught up with your trip report and its been absolutely fantastic! Everything looks like it was SOOO much fun!

After all you have been through over the last few months with your accident and the loss of Chris's Dad, you really DO deserve the honeymoon of a lifetime!! It is paradise on earth!! We went twice in 2006 (Yep, the credit card took a hammering) and I fell deeply in love with the place... and we'll be sure to go back one day.... Perhaps for our 10 year vow renewal.... or if I can't wait that long... 5 year!!

Can't wait to get the actual wedding! :-))))

Thank you I’m glad to hear that it will be worth all the trials and tribulations to make it there. I really want some time to relax and kick back. Although, Kris says that I like to cram too many sightseeing activities into a trip! :rotfl: I’m hoping the last few days of the trip when we fly over to Maui will be a little more laid back and relaxed.

oh Vanessa- sorry about the honeymoon drama! I'm sure it'll be worth it once you get there!

Cant wait for the next update!:goodvibes:

I am hoping to finish up the rehearsal dinner at least this afternoon; I’ve been wanting to get more done too. I feel like it’s a journal of the wedding that will help me remember everything too :goodvibes

Hi

I've just read through you TR and its so great!:thumbsup2

Just wanted to ask, where did you get the hidden mickey info from that was in your welcome packs?

I think it'd be great to have something like that as my guests will be travelling from the UK and it will be many peoples first time in Disney.

Thank you, cant wait to read more.

The Hidden Mickey pamphlet was sent to me by another Disney bride, so I would be more than happy to pass it along to you too. Just PM me your email address and I can send it out. :)
 
Rehearsal dinner invitations (to go along with our Pirates of the Caribbean theme) pirate: :
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After we arrived at the Dolphin we went in to find that our guests had just been escorted inside the restaurant, so we had perfect timing. Walking into the Dolphin:
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We knew that our arrival at 11:45 for everyone would be in-between their switch between breakfast and lunch, so here are some pictures of everyone waiting to go inside:
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Here is the set-up of the room. It overlooked the water across towards Boardwalk. We wanted one large table, so we could all sit together.
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Our pirate centerpieces:
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Gift bags (some had the princess or the pirate topper- guy/girl division) also there were some Pirates of the Caribbean skull gummy candies that we added too princess: :
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The food was fantastic! Everyone went up for seconds and some for thirds. We went with the buffet instead of the plated dinners since we have some fussy eaters in our group. The cost was $17.95 per person plus tax and gratuity (total $22.71) which also included nonalcoholic drinks (pop –soda for all the southerners reading, tea, coffee) and the room was free!
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Desserts:
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Three of the groomsmen:
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Kris’ mom and cousin (her husband the other groomsmen headed out for a baseball game after rehearsal):
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Matron of honor, Marquitta, and her husband, Mark our singer and MC:
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Bridesmaids – Patriece and Amanda:
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Hostess- Justine and her mom Sharon (my cousins):
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Left to right: Hostess, Emily and her mom (my mom’s best friend since age 5), my parents, and cousin Josh who was our usher and my bridal attendant (he stood on my side during the wedding):
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Here is the table with presents for the bridal party:
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Opening presents:
Judi (maid of honor)
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Kyle (flowergirl)
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The guys didn’t get a gift; we paid money on the tuxes for the groomsmen.

The bridesmaids received the Belle Swarovski bracelet:
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Our two hostesses got Mickey photo albums (from the Disney outlet on I-Drive!) They are the denim ones in this picture:
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I bought my cousin, Josh, who stood on my side a bunch of University of Michigan stuff since he’s a big fan:
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Our flowergirl got a lot of Disney princess stuff- purse, hair things, etc. We also got her a bracelet that had crystals with each of the bridesmaids colors (purple, green, yellow, pink) princess:

For my parents, I had paid for them to the lunch with an Imagineer later that week at the Brown Derby. It is something that my mom has always wanted to do and she was so touched that she cried. They really enjoyed themselves at it and I’m so glad that we picked this as a gift. I also had a frame that had a poem to your parents on your wedding which also got a lot of people crying (I had bought it several years ago long before I was planning a wedding and had put it away because I thought it was so touching):
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For Kris’ mom we had bought her a one day ticket to the parks. She had been asking us about costs of admission, etc. in the months leading to the wedding, so we thought she wanted to check out the parks. Apparently not because she didn't want the gift! She’s not into "things", so we thought this would be something that she could use (she had only been to Magic Kingdom like 15 years prior). Now we have a 1 day ticket to save for a future trip. We have different tastes, so I wasn’t too insulted. I just thought you were supposed to smile politely and thank someone even when you hate a gift.

My parents bought me a beautiful butterfly bracelet in white and yellow gold. When I was little my nickname was butterfly and I have tons of butterfly things (one of our new bathrooms has butterflies in the décor.) It was such a nice surprise; I didn’t expect anything from them since they had already bought Kris and I a washer and dryer for our new condo :laundy: :
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As a surprise I had ordered a groomscake for Kris from the bakery at the Dolphin. They did a fantastic job. The sheet cake was only $80 and it was a chocolate sponge cake with peanut butter filling. Even though we had all had dessert already we still dug into it! Kris’ nickname has been Moose (he got it in high school) so I just sent them the image and then they created the cake:
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When we first got there they asked if we wanted to offer alcoholic beverages to our guests. We said that we don’t drink and didn’t even want to bother offering our guests the option to purchase it on their own. We figured it was noon on a Sunday people could wait to get a drink. Most people had gone out the night before anyway and we didn’t want the hassle of separate checks. The funny thing was they kept bringing out these fancy flavored teas in glass bottles for our guests. I was thinking that’s cool that they are including those.

Then when we got the final check there was an extra $85 in beverage charges for them. I asked for a manager and told them that when we were asked about alcohol they should have mentioned these drinks too. We never approved them offering beverages at an additional cost. Since we had someone else draw up our original contract (that manager had since left) they took the $85 off without any real hassle which was a relief.

There’s still more to come that day- ESPN weekend, meeting the minister and the favor drama continues!
 
"pop –soda for all the southerners reading"

Hey! It's not a North-South thing. It is all you crazy MidWesterners that came up with that name!
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:yay: Glad to see more Vanessa! Fresh looks like it was nice! Food looked yummy! Love the grooms cake- been trying to decide if I should do one- I thought maybe a cake for DF and all the boys! "New family" type thing.

OMG! your MIL should have better manners! I cant imagine a grown adult acting like that! Gracious-smile-accept and move on! Holy cow-as a mother that is one of the most embarrassing things little boys do when they get gifts(note I say little) 2 of them are better about that now-thank god!

I cant wait to hear more and am dying :faint: to see the wedding!:goodvibes:
 
"pop –soda for all the southerners reading"

Hey! It's not a North-South thing. It is all you crazy MidWesterners that came up with that name!
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How true! Actually, I lived in Indiana for a while and they called it soda too and Kris is in Ohio where they also call it soda. Maybe it's just a Michigan thing :laughing:
 
:yay: Glad to see more Vanessa! Fresh looks like it was nice! Food looked yummy! Love the grooms cake- been trying to decide if I should do one- I thought maybe a cake for DF and all the boys! "New family" type thing.

OMG! your MIL should have better manners! I cant imagine a grown adult acting like that! Gracious-smile-accept and move on! Holy cow-as a mother that is one of the most embarrassing things little boys do when they get gifts(note I say little) 2 of them are better about that now-thank god!

I cant wait to hear more and am dying :faint: to see the wedding!:goodvibes:

The cake for all the guys sounds like a great idea!

I was a little shocked with his mom. I thought she could have at least taken it and sold it.

I've been dragging my feet on the wedding until I get Randy's pictures, which I'm told won't be until late next week at the earliest. None of our guests got any decent shots, so that was pretty disappointing. :upsidedow
 
Awww, the photo of your Mom shedding a few tears gave me goosebumps! I have so many nice photos of my Mum and Auntie wiping a few tears away... especially when we gave them their gifts at dinner the night before the wedding!

What IS it with MIL's!?!? Don't even get me started on their ability to be incredibly rude and extremely ungrateful?! They must suddenly forget their manners once their son is getting married! I known mine has upset me greatly and i'm having great difficulty even being civil to her right now... but thats a story for my TR rather than yours!

You will LOVE Hawaii. We never got as far as Maui... We just stayed on Oahu both times we were there and absolutely loved it. I hired a car and drove around the Island and walked along some of the most stunning beaches I have ever seen in my life! It was such a chill out vacation for us...


... Plus Waikiki has an AMAZING Cheesecake Factory *drools* :cloud9:
 
Vanessa, I am really enjoying your report and all your pictures. It looks like everyone had a great time at the tea and the pirate and princess party. Eagerly, waiting to hear about the wedding!

The food at Fresh looks so good and the groom's cake looks delicious! I was considering going to Cape May for a rehearsal meal either breakfast or dinner but now I am considering Fresh!

Wow! Your mother in law refused the park pass in front of everyone! She could have accepted it graciously and given it away afterwards. I hoped she "behaved" for the rest of the trip!

(As far as I know all Canadians call it pop but In Bermuda, they call it soda.
 












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