Update on Mummy

[caribbound]

Thank you all who gave support and prayed for my mom's heart surgery today. They did the cath yesterday and she only had 15-20% blockage, less than they expected, and the valve wasn't as bad as it originally looked. She could have put it off but she figured she was already psyched and if she put it off long she has risk the of stroke. She has no fear of death, but doesn't want to be a drawn out burden while here.

Today's surgery went well and she's coming out of it soon (the anesthesia) so I'll be going in a bit to say hi. A week in ICU and then a very long and difficult recovery, but hopefully she will come back healthier then she's been in years.

Unfortunately, my dad went for an overdue dr. appt yesterday also. His severe hip pain that has him stumbling and out of breath is highly likely an extension of previous cancer, even though blood levels are good. If I understand it correctly, they can do radiation which will help the pain, but chemo gets into the quality vs. quantity of life issue. All of the siblings and spouses are meeting tomorrow to discuss where we go from here to care for them. My dad is 81 and still self employed because of poor life choices with stocks thus no retirement or pension plan. Wouldn't it be wonderful if my mom regained enough strenth to be able to care for my dad again since their roles have been reversed for several years now.

Thanks again for giving me a place to share my sorrows this week.

 

[milkabum]

Lots of hugs and pixie dust to your mum on a safe and healthy recovery and for your dad as well!

 

[AmberDaze]

Many hugs & prayers being sent to you, your mom, and your dad.

 

[Peri]

Oh I did not see this before today! Please know that I am praying for you and your dear parents - I hope all turns out well.

 

[pinkgalYall]

Many and to you and your family!!

 

[poohbear1234]

lots of hugs and pixie dust to your mom
~poohbear1234~

 

[threeboysmom]

Awww, Car.... I just saw this now! You know I will be praying for all of you - your mom, your dad, and you.

Please please keep us updated!

 

[Kasiks]

I am sending all my good vibes and thoughts on the way of your mummy, your dad and yourself. May things go for the best for your parents

 

[4fosterkids]

I did not see this post until now....
Lots of prayers and pixie dust to you and your family!
I'm glad your mom's surgery went good and I hope her recovery is great too!
Sending extra strength for the upcoming decisions you all have to come up with!

 

[PurpleDuck]

I too am guilty of not coming into this board until now.

Car, you so don't need this now. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. For you all to see a speedy and healthier recovery for your mom.. and a slowing of the maladies your dad is suffering.

and my friend!

 

[cteddiesgirl]

Many hugs, prayers and a lot of pixie dust for you, your parents and your family.

I truly hope that your parents start feeling well soon.

 

[Chedstro]

Great to hear your mom's surgery went well. My thoughts and pixie dust for you and both parents - hugs

 

[Lady Boadicea]

Wow Car! I am sending prayers and pixie dust your way!
Hugs!

Lady

Thank you all who gave support and prayed for my mom's heart surgery today. They did the cath yesterday and she only had 15-20% blockage, less than they expected, and the valve wasn't as bad as it originally looked. She could have put it off but she figured she was already psyched and if she put it off long she has risk the of stroke. She has no fear of death, but doesn't want to be a drawn out burden while here.

Today's surgery went well and she's coming out of it soon (the anesthesia) so I'll be going in a bit to say hi. A week in ICU and then a very long and difficult recovery, but hopefully she will come back healthier then she's been in years.

Unfortunately, my dad went for an overdue dr. appt yesterday also. His severe hip pain that has him stumbling and out of breath is highly likely an extension of previous cancer, even though blood levels are good. If I understand it correctly, they can do radiation which will help the pain, but chemo gets into the quality vs. quantity of life issue. All of the siblings and spouses are meeting tomorrow to discuss where we go from here to care for them. My dad is 81 and still self employed because of poor life choices with stocks thus no retirement or pension plan. Wouldn't it be wonderful if my mom regained enough strenth to be able to care for my dad again since their roles have been reversed for several years now.

Thanks again for giving me a place to share my sorrows this week.

 

[Disney Dreams]

Glad to hear your mom's surgery went well. Good thoughts and pixie dust to a full recovery and all the best for your Dad.

- Disney Dreams

 

[LuNaReVe]

Pixie Dust and My Prayers to you

 

[LoriR]

So glad to hear your Mom's surgery went so well.

Hugs to you as you deal with such a difficult time. My prayers are with you and your family.

Lori

 

[anya.sparrow]

Prayers and VMK Viberoonies sent your way

(I don't know what VMK Viberoonies are, but I had to come up with something new )

 

[Maleficent2]

Car

I am so sorry I missed this Boat loads of on the way.

Glad to hear the surgery went well and I hope she mends swiftly and on her way home in no time.

to you and yours.

 

[Janomi]

Hugs and well wishes to you and your family my dear Car!!

 

[caribbound]

Thank you everyone! I feel so great knowing people care. I told my mom she had virtual hugs sent to her by some of my friends. She was too out of it yesteday to respond to that, but my siblings think I'm crazy.

For everyone apologizing...this is the first you saw this post because I just posted yesterday after I knew all went well. (I myself very rarely come on this board.) I had told many, especially those I know to be strong in faith, about the upcoming surgery during the week, but thought it much faster to post the update then send out individual messages in game.

Most of the tubes have been removed today, so she is sure to be feeling MUCH more comfortable, and she's sitting up. She'll be in ICU for a week and then not sure where they will move her to for rehab. Now I'm off to say hi to her and then to the sibling pow wow.

Thanks again!