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I love this reviewer's comments on Jenny McCarthy's book. Or I guess more to the point, why I like McCarthy's approach, which is we don't have all the answers, but here's what worked for us. You are your child's parent, you will know what's best for your child.

Whenever somebody says "This is it! This is the cure for everyone!" I get suspicious. With such a variety of symptoms I doubt that there is one cure for every situation. I suspect in the future we'll see that "autism" will be better defined into specific causes and solutions, right now it is just a term used for a collection of seemingly similar, unexplainable symptoms.

Here's what she had to say about McCarthy's book:

"This book isn't about answers or easy cures that worked for Evan McCarthy; every child with autism is different. For us, we knew we had to figure out a dietary balance for his brain, gut and severe multiple allergies and a proper early intervention program. He no longer looks blankly at a wall, stim for hours or sleeps 4-5 hours at a time. We still have a long way to go with education and diet, but we have a little boy who has shown improvement in socialization with his family and teachers because he is feeling so much better.

"As Jenny says in the end, this is a book about FAITH, having faith in yourself as a parent to do the best of your ability in seeking help for your child's health and well being. Some male readers (i.e. fathers) may be put off by the disheartening tone she has towards the father of her son for most of the book but we have to remember it is not directed at fathers in general. This is a telling of her life experience so it is rather autobiographical. I highly recommend for people, who are getting this book for parents of children with autism, to read it first before passing it along... so many parents already know what needs to be done, but they need their friends and family to understand too."
 
Hmmm. Most of the reviews on McCarthy's book are very positive, but here's a negative one:

"I have a son diagnosed with autism and have read many books about it. This book was very offensive to me. The author has every right to try any therapy she thinks is helpful to her child but she has no right to judge parents who do not make the same choice. To describe mothers who do not use DAN doctors as huddling in a corner bemoaning their fate because their children aren't getting better is insulting. Treatments for autism are controversial and parents should make their own choices and leave other parents to do the same.
Her bashing of the medical profession comes off as a selfish tantrum. When you go into a hospital with your child he/she is all you care about but there are other parents there thinking the same thing. The hospital staff has to care for everyone. Being a hysterical demanding basket case doesn't help anyone. It often takes a while to figure out what's really going on so don't describe your doctor as "brain dead".
Since this is an emotional subject, I can see someone venting with a sprinkling of profanity. This book is loaded with it. I had to force myself to keep reading.
I would not recommend this book to anyone. It doesn't just tell a story about a mom with an autistic son. It tells the story of a hysterical, rude judgemental woman who thinks it's her way or the highway."


Makes me want to read the book myself! :lmao:
 
Hmmm. Most of the reviews on McCarthy's book are very positive, but here's a negative one:

"I have a son diagnosed with autism and have read many books about it. This book was very offensive to me. The author has every right to try any therapy she thinks is helpful to her child but she has no right to judge parents who do not make the same choice. To describe mothers who do not use DAN doctors as huddling in a corner bemoaning their fate because their children aren't getting better is insulting. Treatments for autism are controversial and parents should make their own choices and leave other parents to do the same.
Her bashing of the medical profession comes off as a selfish tantrum. When you go into a hospital with your child he/she is all you care about but there are other parents there thinking the same thing. The hospital staff has to care for everyone. Being a hysterical demanding basket case doesn't help anyone. It often takes a while to figure out what's really going on so don't describe your doctor as "brain dead".
Since this is an emotional subject, I can see someone venting with a sprinkling of profanity. This book is loaded with it. I had to force myself to keep reading.
I would not recommend this book to anyone. It doesn't just tell a story about a mom with an autistic son. It tells the story of a hysterical, rude judgemental woman who thinks it's her way or the highway."


Makes me want to read the book myself! :lmao:

Her books are great. I have read the baby books, and I really liked them. Funny, and real. :thumbsup2
 
Hello Hyenas! I'm currently taking my break. I'm very stressed out today.
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Oh really? I never read it, but I remember when she was promoting Belly Laughs, I thought it sounded funny. :)

Apparently during that time she was just beginning to become aware of his autism and still had to go ont he book tour and talk about how wonderful he was and how great motherhood was, when she really felt like a terrible mother who couldn't figure out what was wrong with her child.
 
More autism related websites (from another review of Jenny's book):

http://www.autismtreatmentcenter.org/
http://www.tenthingsautism.com/book.html

http://www.kylestreehouse.org/about.cfm
Kyle Westphal's recovery story has been featured on the Discovery Channel and FOX News.

"A Miracle To Believe In"
Entire Book Online. Note events take place in the 1970's.
http://www.autismtreatmentcenter.org/contents/resources/miracle/prologue.php

"A Miracle To Believe In" Chapter 24
Includes Dr. Yorke's Report on Robertito's progress. Takes place in 1978. Gives reader good motivation to read entire book.
http://www.autismtreatmentcenter.org/contents/resources/miracle/chapter24.php

A Recovery Story: Jade Hogan
21 minute video spans from on-set (solitary life) to recovery (talking on the phone, playing T-Ball, etc.)
{Note: It seems to play better on MS Internet Explorer, than Netscape.}
http://video.yahoo.com/video/play?vid=109310
 
Her books are great. I have read the baby books, and I really liked them. Funny, and real. :thumbsup2
Staley, have you heard anything about "indigo" or "crystal" people? This is mentioned in one of the reviews, and apparently Jenny had a website talking about this?

I remember reading a post on the DIS quite awhile ago where someone had come across the website and though it was very controversial, she thought it had merit and wanted to discuss it with other like-minded people.

I had NO IDEA what that was all about, I presume related to Aspergers/Autism???

Apparently the website no longer exists and its information has been debunked. :confused3
 
Hello Hyenas! I'm currently taking my break. I'm very stressed out today.
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Sorry, pix, you must have popped in while I was still reading reviews of Jenny McCarthy's book. :(

Sorry it's so stressful. More dealing with that difficult customer?
 
Staley, have you heard anything about "indigo" or "crystal" people? This is mentioned in one of the reviews, and apparently Jenny had a website talking about this?

I remember reading a post on the DIS quite awhile ago where someone had come across the website and though it was very controversial, she thought it had merit and wanted to discuss it with other like-minded people.

I had NO IDEA what that was all about, I presume related to Aspergers/Autism???

Apparently the website no longer exists and its information has been debunked. :confused3
Yeah... I have heard of it. :rolleyes: If fact, our local community college has a class in it. Not a for credit class, just one of those adult education classes. I dont know much about it, it seems like new age junk to me. I dont know that it is linked to Autism, but maybe.

I think that indigo children are supposed to be more in tune with whats going on around them. :confused3
 
I just ordered a bunch of new bras and undies from Layne Bryant. :cool1: :cool1: I had a good code, $25.00 off of $75.00!!! Plus the bras are on sale.. I spent $73.00 and saved $60. So thats almost 50%. Not to shabby.... PLUS I get credit on Sunshine!:cool1: :cool1:
 
Ahhh. I guess that makes me a crystal kid then... I don't know NOTHIN'!!! :rotfl2:

:lmao: :lmao: :lmao: Actually, I think the crystal kids are supposed to be hard to handle, and independent. I think that where the Autistic thing comes from. Someone was describing their "crystal" child, and everyone was telling them that their kid sounded like he might have been autistic. (on the dis..) but yesssss... now that you mention it. I TOTALLY see you as hard to handle. :lmao: :lmao: :lmao:
 
:lmao: :lmao: :lmao: Actually, I think the crystal kids are supposed to be hard to handle, and independent. I think that where the Autistic thing comes from. Someone was describing their "crystal" child, and everyone was telling them that their kid sounded like he might have been autistic. (on the dis..) but yesssss... now that you mention it. I TOTALLY see you as hard to handle. :lmao: :lmao: :lmao:
Hmmmmm, maybe not me either. ;)

I had a discussion with several girlfriends one time about who was the more dominant partner in the marriage, and was stunned when my friends said they were, not their DHs. I don't think of either of them as controlling or demanding, but one girl was insisting she is pretty controlling. :eek:

I think of DH and me as pretty equal, but he's a little more equal, if you know what I mean. (A little reference to Animal Farm) :rotfl:

Anyway, when I told DH about our conversation, he said, "Oh no question, you're in charge." WHAT?! :eek: :sad2:
 
OOOOO! Are you watching Oprah??? It's the pregnant guy!
 
Hmmmmm, maybe not me either. ;)

I had a discussion with several girlfriends one time about who was the more dominant partner in the marriage, and was stunned when my friends said they were, not their DHs. I don't think of either of them as controlling or demanding, but one girl was insisting she is pretty controlling. :eek:

I think of DH and me as pretty equal, but he's a little more equal, if you know what I mean. (A little reference to Animal Farm) :rotfl:

Anyway, when I told DH about our conversation, he said, "Oh no question, you're in charge." WHAT?! :eek: :sad2:
I dont think that ANYONE would be surprised here, but I TOTALLY rule the roost in this house. I am in charge of everything...From the bills to where we vacation. not that dh isnt totally free to disagree with me, and we discuss all major decisions together... but when it comes to the little stuff, I handle it.

Dh is so laid back, I dont think he really cares what is going on as long as he is with us. Well... he did put his foot down about going back to DL. But am glad he did, at least this way he actually helped with our vaca. :lmao: :lmao:
OOOOO! Are you watching Oprah??? It's the pregnant guy!

No... We are watching Digimon. I will catch the rerun. I saw a pic of him, and I thought that maybe he would kinda look fem. But he just looks like a dude with a beer belly!
 
hey ladies!

Still trying to catch up.. exciting news for Dizzy, I know my sis felt TONS better when she had a diagnosis in hand and then researched every book she could find on autism.

She also believes that his "system" can't handle medications, she's tried a few antianxiety meds (he gets "stuck" on an idea at school and then yells and screams if he gets something wrong)but the meds wrecked havoc for him and he was out of control.
ummm what else.. she has him on a GFCF diet-- I was skeptical.. but for HIM (not for everyone) it has worked a mini miracle. He's a different child if he is on strict diet.. if he gets traces of gluten he is hard to deal with.


ummmmmmm,at first the school district told her they suspected autism from there her Ped didn't believe it... she went to a developemental psychologist for the actual diagnosis. Hard to find.. children hospitals/university hospitals may have one.

The plus of getting a diagnosis is the state then can get you medical services and will help with the costs for co-pays and therapy. :yay: They even help pay for his special diet and for respite care. :goodvibes
 
Bernice!! Whats up? I just wanted to let you know that my kids and I are all sporting some neat tatoos. ;)
 
Bernice!! Whats up? I just wanted to let you know that my kids and I are all sporting some neat tatoos. ;)
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wait, which ones did I send you
:lmao:

I've sent out a bunch of cards and bought a few other goodies..can't keep track of it all.. :rotfl2:
 
I fell over laughing when Alison said she put a smilie sticker in an umm strategic place for her checkup :rotfl2:
When I sent them, I didn't quite have that in mind :rolleyes1
 
Still watching the pregnant man on Oprah. Actually, you're not missing much, it's pretty pedestrian. He used to be a 'she', and when he went through gender reassignment, he opted to keep his reproductive organs in anticipation of wanting children someday.

As it turns out, the woman he's with (who he was with before gender reassignment, which I thought was interesting) is an older woman with 2 grown children from a previous marriage.

They did artificial insemination with donor sperm. The pregnancy is progressing normally, and he's now 6 months along. :)
 
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