Ugh.Why?

[lalastephanie]

Ugh.
Why do people have to judge people so much?
I've known my friend Ronnie online for like over 4 years now and so I know basically anything and everything about him.Hes really nice and sweet.He can get mean at times but thats cause I think he has laot of anger bottles up inside.His dad and sister died a few years ago and his uncle died recently and so his life is kinda messed up some.I'm not oging into detail or anything because i know he doesn't want me to tell about his whole life but he jsut has laot of anger bottled inside because of stuff.

We've been oging to this hcat room for a long time now and recently he went to a new chat and got some of the people to come to our chat and this one person came whgo has made our chat jsut, Ugh, horrible.He tells lies about Ronnie and he trys to get people to hate him and stuff and jsut everyone in the hcat is so mean to Ronnie now and I hate it.They all used to be so nice people and we used to say that that chat was like our second family and we always tlaked and hung out and made each other laugh.Now their jsut really mean and their always saying bad stuff about Ronnie that isn't true.I don't jsut mean little things, I mean big things like they say hes a pervert because he dates minors(He just turned 18 this year) and thats not true.It just bugs me to death.

Sorry for posting this.
I jsut had to get some anger out because thats been bugging me for al ong time now and it jsut makes me sad that people would judge someone THAT much.

 

[tigger/winnie/tink]

wow

 

[Babyjustrun]

That is why I avoid chatrooms.
MSN & message boards por favor.

 

[Tink-a-boo]

Thats really interesting. Did you ever think that these people are saying these things just because there behind a computer and not face to face with you guys?

 

[Babyjustrun]

Thats really interesting. Did you ever think that these people are saying these things just because there behind a computer and not face to face with you guys?

Well, it's a lot easier to be mean, and bully or whatever, people you don't know. There's no awkward meet ups at school, they'll probably never see you.
And because you probably mean nothing to them, they'll never feel guilty when they're in that chat room, they'll never feel guilty when they're not online.

 

[disney100666]

wow, people are mean, I have never been in a chat room and I don't think I eva wanna now.

 

[GirlWithSpunk]

I agree with Hilary.
I like using MSN or AIM, thats it.
I've only been once or twice to a chat room, and I hated it.

 

[lalastephanie]

Yeah I don't exaclty like chat rooms either but some of my friends don't have any messengers so I have to go into chat rooms to talk to them.Usually hwne I go into a chat me and my few friends in there go into our own little room and jsut talk.

 

[BabyPiglet]

Internet bullies, are pathetic little kids who in RL have no life, no friends, and our outcasts. They're typically very shy, and therefore would never say anything like that to people in real life.

It's actually, similiar to the profile of a serial killer. They want to be included, famous, talked about, but don't have the guts to do it the real way.

What I'm getting at is, ignore them because they're not worth wasting time over.

Go to a new chat.

 

[lalastephanie]

Thanks Jenny.
That made me feel a bit better about everything.

 

[BabyPiglet]

Aww, anytime =]

 

[CastawayJ]

you can get him on here where you know you have friends...um

its a crule world and people do mean stuff

i meet some new people at surfcamp but now im marked loser cause my uncle gave me a rashguard that has the word lifeguard on the back

he's a lifeguard and surfs so it makes sense that it says this but o well now im loser boy

people are like this and its life so i understand whats hapening to him and he needs you and anyone that is a close friend cause he has a really hard time and needs you all

 

[Sparx]

People are so mean and judgmental because they're going to make fun of you before you can make fun of them. Its a self protection mechanism. Much why the average overweight person will make jokes about their weight before you get a chance too-except the mean people are laughing at you instead of themselves. Its horrible, and theres no excuse for doing it, but that is why they do it.

 

[CastawayJ]

wow
i told my friend that same thing but with diferent word choice some time in the middle of july