I'm not sure any of your selections fits our touring style. We usually just do three theme park days per trip and three non park days where we relax at our resort and/or do smaller attractions. Our first two theme park days (Day 1 and Day 3 of our trip are commando big time -- to the extreme and great fun by the way) -- up a rope drop and at the front of the line, each party with a copy of the touring plan in hand, and we follow the plan (decide night before what to add or skip) -- jogging to the first attraction (often the first people on the ride), staying at the park till it closes. Great fun, but super structured. We have a big group, so planning our theme park strategy ahead of time together works so well. Hey we just do one Disney park a year and we want to get our monies worth since the one day cost is about $90 pp (Since we just go one day, cost per day is very high). We hit our first day at SeaWorld the same way. Sea World is day 1. A Disney park is day 3.// Days 2, 4, and 6 (sleep as late as we want, relaxed brunch at condo, a little tennis, a little swimming, maybe something like the Titanic attraction or Gatorland, relaxed dinner (order pizza or go some place like Sweet Tomatoes), family games or movie at the condo and visiting with family, time hanging out on the balcony / patio just talking, enjoying the nice weather. And theme park day #3 (Day 5 of the trip) is a second day at SeaWorld (that great pricing (second day free) gets us there again, plus we love the park). We get there later (not at rope drop), have plans to just do a partial day, but end up having so much fun that we usually stay till closing on this day too.
So bottom line: Two Commmando days, Three relaxing days, and one in between day is the pattern on almost every trip.
Note: We go high season -- Christmas, busy spring break weeks, and IMHO touring plans if you want to do a lot on your park days really help.