have2getaway
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I have an older son with Asperger’s and younger sons (triplets), who were also diagnosed with autism. My older son had severe issues, so we really had to request the GAC card when we brought him. He is 17 now and simply chooses on his own not to venture much to theme parks. He doesn’t like crowds or lines and prefers not to have to request a special card to be able to experience an attraction.
Our younger boys love theme parks (for a span of time), but really struggle in lines (for various reasons). One has pretty severe sensory issues. He had panic attacks on both Mission Space and It’s Tough to be a Bug. We have made 2 successful trips to Disney by simply going during low season (January). Our last trip, we noticed we didn’t do as much because it was too difficult to deal with their issues in lines and, quite honestly, not fair to other guests. Two of them don’t understand maintaining space between themselves and others in lines. The third gets severe anxiety and will start to ask every question under the sun about the ride. We didn’t ask for the DAS for them because it was much less severe than our older son, and we thought we could manage. Now, we are actually considering not returning because of the stress with waiting in lines and crowds and their issues. We also have to return during February break when it will be much busier. It was only then that I started to acknowledge that, perhaps, it was time to request the accommodation. I know the DAS is much different than the GAC card we used for my son over 12 years ago. I understand that it doesn’t ‘jet set’ you to the front of the line, and I’m okay with that. I’m just wondering if the request for the accommodation is similar to how it was before? I didn’t need anything from a Dr. before. Is that still the case? We obviously have plenty in writing to confirm their issues, so just want to be prepared if it’s needed. Also, would we request it for all 3 or just 1? My concern with requesting it for just 1 is that the son with anxiety has bowed out of several attractions at the last minute. I also can’t help but consider that my older son might come and enjoy himself if he wasn’t the one who had to put himself out there as different, but I’m honestly not counting on that. He’s discovered coping strategies over the years, and some of that has sadly become to avoid situations he might be uncomfortable in. TIA
Our younger boys love theme parks (for a span of time), but really struggle in lines (for various reasons). One has pretty severe sensory issues. He had panic attacks on both Mission Space and It’s Tough to be a Bug. We have made 2 successful trips to Disney by simply going during low season (January). Our last trip, we noticed we didn’t do as much because it was too difficult to deal with their issues in lines and, quite honestly, not fair to other guests. Two of them don’t understand maintaining space between themselves and others in lines. The third gets severe anxiety and will start to ask every question under the sun about the ride. We didn’t ask for the DAS for them because it was much less severe than our older son, and we thought we could manage. Now, we are actually considering not returning because of the stress with waiting in lines and crowds and their issues. We also have to return during February break when it will be much busier. It was only then that I started to acknowledge that, perhaps, it was time to request the accommodation. I know the DAS is much different than the GAC card we used for my son over 12 years ago. I understand that it doesn’t ‘jet set’ you to the front of the line, and I’m okay with that. I’m just wondering if the request for the accommodation is similar to how it was before? I didn’t need anything from a Dr. before. Is that still the case? We obviously have plenty in writing to confirm their issues, so just want to be prepared if it’s needed. Also, would we request it for all 3 or just 1? My concern with requesting it for just 1 is that the son with anxiety has bowed out of several attractions at the last minute. I also can’t help but consider that my older son might come and enjoy himself if he wasn’t the one who had to put himself out there as different, but I’m honestly not counting on that. He’s discovered coping strategies over the years, and some of that has sadly become to avoid situations he might be uncomfortable in. TIA