Whew! I finally caught up to the end of this thread!
My thoughts: I'm definitely not a dog person, nor is my husband. We have mild dog allergies. But, aside from that, we just don't chose to have dogs in our life. The fact that I don't like dogs is not something I usually admit out loud to friends, family. We know so many people with dogs and I feel like I'm insulting them if I say I don't like your furry member of the family. When visiting friends and family with dogs we typically just grin and tolerate it, and find a non-hairy hard surface to sit on.
The bottom line for me is that I don't want to stay in a room that someone's pet has occupied. I don't chose to live with dogs at home, and I don't chose to live with them on my vacation. And, I don't trust Disney to eliminate all traces of dog from the room. I'm talking pet hair, smells, dog slobber on windows, etc. One of my kids had Lyme Disease and it's not something I ever want to repeat. The thought of ticks coming into the rooms on dogs, and then the dogs laying on the beds...that's enough to keep me out of a pet-friendly resort.
I love the Yacht Club. It's one of my favorite places. But, I just don't trust Disney to keep the pet dogs in a totally separate area. Maybe once they've proven their ability to do that I will consider the YC again. But, for now, I will stay away.
I love kids and I know they also bring their fair share of messes and noise. But, when I think about a dog laying its hind quarters on the same pillow that I may sleep on at night...no thanks...just not for me.
As for kids (and adults) not approaching a dog on a leash, sometimes that is easier said than done. A lot of my neighbors walk their dogs on retractable / extendable leashes. You may think you're an adequate distance away, but then the pet owner lets out the length of the leash and the dog is suddenly jumping up on you.
I love, love, love Disney! My big fear is that they will extend this policy to all of the resorts. I never thought I'd hear myself say that I refuse to stay on-site....but extending the dog policy to all resorts may push me to that point. And, that just makes me sad.