If your driving check out Chicago unless its winter. Lots of museums, a couple of zoos, good eating, Lake Michigan. Coming from NY there is also a large air museum in OH. If your going to SF there are lots of coupons on line for a little off on tours and eats. If you have time google the various suggestions to get ideas. Besides Disney what do you enjoy? Cities, country, museums, trains,farms? Let us give you some tailored ideas.