Morning!!! It's beautiful here already. I have the windows open and I love the fresh air.
MK, now that you said BF's grandmother is in her mid 60's that totally changes my opinion. When I hear grandmother, I think of my own who are in their late 70's/early 80's. I think that is way too young to just give up. I know from the little bit of research I've done, there are lots of alternative medicines out there. Even slightly adjusting the treatment she is on now can have a difference. Maybe not give her more time but make what time she does have left more bearable without completely giving up.
M&N, your friend's situation is completely different than some of the things I have read. But I really don't need to see a 12/13 year old boy in the ladies room. And I don't think he really wants to be there. Add in the 12/13 year old girls who can completely modest about the bathroom and it just seems wrong.