We decide to go with Rev. Tim for our wedding. I meet with Rev. Jack and Rev. Tim and liked them both. Honestly, the deciding factor was my f.m.i.l. who felt that Rev. Tim was more "with it & lively". (Still, I think she wanted us to go with someone much younger and I wanted someone with a traditional feel.) So, that how I decided on an Officiant. It was a tuff decision when it came between those two. Now, even while I post this I'm not sure! Sorry if I'm not much help, I recommend to just go with your gut. And my gut told me to trust Mrs. Massie and make her happy. Hahaha.