Honestly that does not apply to every family. I understand that FD does not work for a lot of families, but that doesn't mean it doesn't work for *everyone*. I wish people would stop making such a blanket statement and realize that while it might not work for you, it works for others!
I have run the numbers. I keep running them! I try on-site with FD; on-site resort discount paying for
DDP; off-site, paying for dining & YES tickets; off-site with some cooking & some dining & YES tickets. Various off-site resorts or houses... With just our family.. with the kids bringing a friend... with another family to split resort/house costs.
I haven't stopped running numbers in just over a week since I discovered our kid-free trip is not going to happen.
I cannot make our vacation substantially cheaper. If a scenario works out that we end up saving a couple hundred - it's not savings to us. When we go on vacation, it means *vacation*. Cooking is not a vacation to me. I cook enough at home the other 50 weeks a year. And my husband really does not want to rent a car if possible. He drives enough.