You're welcome to feel as justified in anger toward the driver as you'd like. You're welcome to think I'm looking for a defense of why she did it, though I'd be interested for you to find a quote from me where I said it was justified, OK or acceptable. In fact, I said she deserved to be charged. However, my point is that as is often the case, there seems to be a mob with pitchforks who want to burn the driver at the stake. I'm not walking with that mob, at least not at this point. Unless there's evidence she acted with pure malice and intent, it was an accident. An absolutely horrific one, but an accident no less. Doesn't excuse what she did (whatever it was, which we don't know), doesn't make it OK, none of that. The results of her actions were beyond disastrous...but she made a mistake (at least that's what it appears). You're absolutely right, we all have a responsibility behind the wheel and it needs to be taken seriously. I can't tell you how many people I've seen who were permanently injured, scared or dead because of a momentary lack of responsibility. And many of the people who caused those accidents were otherwise "good" people who made make a really bad decision. Many of them have a squeaky clean driving record, not even so much as a jaywalking ticket. But they make a bad judgment that ends very badly. Personally, I don't necessarily think that makes them bad people. I'm not "defending" her mistake or justifying it, but based on what we know so far it was a horrible accident. Her life is going to be ruined too. It's a tragedy for all involved.