Ok, thanks for taking a break for the last few hours everybody! I know you did it just for me...
I've only skimmed, but at least I have a clue. (well, on the boards anyway.)
Here's a few things I picked up on, but I'm sure I missed a ton.
D&D - Take a look at Knoebels (sp - I'll look it up tomorrow.) Its a great old fashioned picnic park. Rides by the ticket, good (and inexpensive) food, or bring your own, and 1 or 2 nationallly ranked roller coasters. I haven't camped there, but have heard good things.
Pikester, M&N and Bopsmom - Happy thoughts and prayers for your families and health issues.
Pikester - I LOVE the Nascar week idea. I like Nascar, but DH is a big fan. It would probably get me to Disney more often if he had something like that to go for... works out for everybody.
whgrn - I'll post some ideas tomorrow for the area, although it seems like you've settled on OCNJ. I haven't been in years, but we went there every summer growing up. One thought though was the Poconos... tons of stuff to do and places to stay in every price range. I haven't spent a lot of time there myself, but a lot of my co-workers rave about their weekend trips.
M&N - I can't believe you mentioned Mack and Mancos!!! They have the best pizza ever. My mom and I once drove all the way to OC just for lunch. Also, the Lewes ferry is a great idea. Oh, and congrats on 1000!!
Gotta run... I'm late. But, I'll be back tomorrow.