Mornin' all (channeling Uncle R this morning

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*WARNING: VERY LONG STORY AHEAD!!!!*
It's going to be an odd day. Scott and my BIL have their Geek meeting tonight. Once upon a time, Amanda and I would always get together and spend the day/evening, depending on her work schedule. The past couple of months she hasn't called me or anything to make plans for it so I assumed it was a work thing. Since around Thanksgiving, she has majorly backed off from me for reasons I don't know. She used to call/text/Facebook message me all the time about everything, especially advice concerning hair and makeup. Well, that stopped as she started hanging out more with this girl she goes to church with.
Loooooooooong story short, the less I heard from her and the less we did things together, the more I started seeing things on Facebook between these two girls. It gave off the vibe that she couldn't be friends with both of us. Silly, right? So as she backed off from me, I decided not to cause a fuss and just take a hint. (I know I know, don't ASSume anything) She would say all the time she was so busy, didn't have time for anything, missed me, etc., there would be all these "checking in" things on Facebook with this girl, going to XYZ with her, this girl would post she was on her way to their house for dinner, etc. So it was very inconsistent. I can totally understand someone being really busy at work/home and not having time for their friends, but I felt like I was being lied to, you know?
Ok, onto today. She sent me a Facebook message last Friday saying:
Geek night.
Guess what?? I Finally have a day off!! And... It's Tuesday! Want to help me buy a good flat iron? I've never even looked at the things, much less compared them.
I'm off all day Tuesday, and if you aren't doing anything I would LOVE to spend the day with you. I can take Chloe to daycare so we can have some quality girl time.
I miss spending time with you!
~Amanda
Ok, progress, right? Well, the day before she had posted about wanting to buy a flat iron. Well, said girl exclaimed, "Just take me with you!" Ok, problem solved. Again, this was one of those things that at one time she would have just called/texted me directly to help her with. Ok, whatever. Again, respecting the space. So I get this message from her. The catty side of me wanted to reply, "Looks like you have all the help you need already, judging from you status." But no, of course I didn't say that. I really didn't want to get together with her because number one, I was looking forward to having a day of doing whatever all by myself, and two, this was so random. I didn't know what to make of it.
So I ended up telling her I could shop this morning and do lunch, but I had plans for the late afternoon/evening. Plans with myself, but she doesn't have to know that, lol. She said ok and that we'd meet at 9:30 this morning. Last night on Facebook she posted:
Yay! Super excited about my day off tomorrow! Get to go shopping with my Sis, who has been woefully neglected by me since I've been working so much. (And, as predicted, I had to tell 2 postmasters "No!" when they called to ask if I wanted to work tomorrow)
Um, ok
So point of the story, we are getting together today. After much prayer and deliberation (and consulting with a friend who knows us both) I am going to broach the subject of what the heck's been going on. I am pretty good at discerning when it's a good time to get into a deep subject and when it isn't, so we'll see how it goes today.
That being said, Scott is having dinner at his meeting tonight and we are going out to lunch somewhere, no idea where yet. If you think of it, say a prayer or send good thoughts my way this morning. I HATE drama and want it out of my life, so I'm really stressed out right now.
I hope everyone has a great day and thanks for reading this novel. It made me feel a lot better just writing it all out
