Hi....I've been really bad about checking in on this thread!
My family came for Thanksgiving and it was rough. The (very) short version is my brother was rude and nasty the entire time, my mom didn't trust me that I knew where anything was (she would ask someone else the same question she'd asked me - in front of me), and nobody could seem to figure out what the plans were, even after they were made. "Oh, I thought we were doing this" (said with intent to change the plans that had been made).
The crazy thing is that my brother mentioned coming back in spring, when he appeared to hate everything about here (Why is the streetcar so old? Why does the street curve? Why is this not rebuilt yet? What's so special about Cafe du Monde - they don't taste all that great?) I think I will be OUT OF TOWN whenever it is that he decides to visit again!
I'd like to say it didn't bother me, but it left me feeling pretty rotten for the rest of last week. Then on top of all that, my medical insurance has (so they say "temporarily pending more paperwork") denied about $700 in basic office visits, due to "pre-existing conditions." Thing is, I don't HAVE any pre-existing conditions, except by their definition, which is something to the effect of "if you've had it before, it's pre-existing". So this sinus headache I have? Since I had one in 2005, it won't be covered now. I've had one before. Migraine? I had one before. Flu? Had it. Pap smear? Not covered - I've had one before. The guy on the phone told me straight out (and he was rude no less) that basically everything would be denied for a year. Curiously, everybody else at work that has gone to the doctor has had everything covered with no issues.
HOWEVER - from a little research, I think what they're doing is actually illegal because I had no lapse in health insurance.
Between the rotten visit and the insurance battles, I at one point actually wondered why I left NYC. Then (perfect timing) got a phone call from a teacher at the other school with some current stories of the nonsense that continues at the other school and that silly little thought made a quick exit!
As for WFD - I'm making an attempt to not eat fast food this month (at the MOST once a week) or frozen pizza. I suspect I'll be begging for food ideas sometime within the next few days!

My mom told me I shouldn't eat any dairy or meat until I lose some weight.

So yeah, I'm fat, stupid, can't be trusted, and live in a place where things happen that my brother "has never seen in the developed world."

I'm glad they went home.
