Teresa, I am totally with you on wanting to see new places while traveling, both out and back. The difference between a traveler and a tourist is that a traveler is all about the trip, but a tourist only cares about the destination. You're obviously the former, T. If you don't get to Cincinnati, you can make Cincinnati chili at home. We have it every Christmas when everyone is home, because we all love it so much. If your sister wants to go straight home after the family visit in Biggsville, can she fly home while you and your daughters drive back?