Lordy mercy what a day I had yesterday!!! Grab your popcorn and a cup of coffee

Ok, where to begin? First off, I talked to Robin yesterday about New Year's Eve/Day. To my shock and surprise, they did not do the nasty. They did, however, sleep together. Awwwww, right? Well, anyway, Robin threw me a curve ball. She told me not to get too excited, just file it away in the back of my mind- she said be deciding what I want to wear as her maid of honor.


They aren't talking marriage or anything, just the future and the possibilities. Make sense? Anyway, I was floored that she asked
MEof all people!!!!!!! I knew I loved her to death, but I had no idea she considered me that close of a friend!! Awesome!!
So after getting this piece of news, I decided I had to clear the air with Kevin. I don't know if I mentioned it any yesterday, but since Kevin is in town this week I invited him to come eat chili with us last night. He accepted. Knowing he was coming over and it would just be the three of us, I took advantage of the opportunity.
We sat and talked for 5 hours. Boy do I feel a lot better about
everything. We talked about my vibe that he didn't like me; the Nashville trip; him and Robin and "their moments"; and details in general. He confided a lot in us, something he never does.
Oh, let me tell you a funny. As we were sitting down to eat, he said, "Yeah, Robin and I both slept in. I didn't go play paintball. I texted her yesterday morning and we met at IHOP and hung out the rest of the day." I exchanged a look with Scott, both of us know he'd just told us a bold faced lie. It was all I could do not to bust out laughing.
After dinner we went to sit in the living room. Scott went to the bathroom and Kevin started in again about how the met up for breakfast and such, and I was looking at him with a huge grin and my head cocked to the side, basically saying, "I'm listening to you, but I know you are totally full of it." Finally he grinned and said, "What?" I said, "Kevin sweetie, don't look me straight in the eye and lie to me. I know she didn't go home NYE." "Really?!" he said. "Yes, I knew she was staying with you before you guys left the other night." Shocked, he said, "How did you know?" "She told me, silly," I informed him.
At this, he busted out laughing. I think he was afraid Scott and I would judge him, or something. So now that the air was cleared about that, we started talking about the two of them. Robin had told me that hadn't had sex and she knew better why now. I didn't question that. I figured if she wanted me to know, she'd tell me. Well Kevin told us last night.
I was floored.
It turns out his first wife had been raped by an ex-boyfriend. She's had an AIDS test, then a repeat 6 months later and all was clear. Kevin never got tested. That is a HUGE reason he hasn't done anything with Robin yet. Talk about making your heart hurt for someone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So anyway, I told Kevin I'd find a good GP in town (he moved back down here last March and hasn't found one yet) so he could get this cleared up. Not to mention he was wanting a physical anyway. Also, his first wife had HUGE intimacy issues because of being raped, as you can imagine. He said there wasn't much after their wedding night.
I'd be cautious about being intimate with someone, too. Wouldn't you?! Geez! Bless his heart!
Like I said, we talked for 5 hours. Everything is totally great with us now. You don't know how much of a relief last night was. Not to mention Kevin hugged me as he was leaving yesterday. That meant a lot. Kevin's not a hugger (not counting Robin, of course!).
Sorry so long, but there is your update on
The Romance of the Smitten Kittens.
***If something above didn't make sense, please tell me. I'm listening to music and singing and typing at the same time***