lissawynn- no you didn't come off like that; I understand what you mean. I just get very tired of the "keeping up with the Joneses" attitude that is so prevalent these days. (not that you were doing that- I know you're just being practical, and of course a 3 bedroom house is what most people hope for- that's nothing extravagent). It's just been my little soapbox topic lately cause I have friends who are just so into a BIG HOUSE, with a BIG POOL and a BIG SUV and SUPER FURNITURE and DREAM KITCHENS and it's like- oh my gosh people- we are all in our 30's....most families don't achieve these kind of goals til they're in their later 40's or 50's...no wonder our generation is so freaking in debt. DH and I got caught up in it for awhile and had to step back and reassess.
Even here on the DIS I see so many posts of people bragging about their huge houses or all their stuff; it rubs me the wrong way. I think perhaps some of my irritation comes from seeing what my hometown of San Jose, CA has gone to- it used to just be a sleepy town south of San Francisco, nice suburb, nothing too special. Well, now you can't live there unless you can afford a 3 bedroom home for a minimum of 500K. My parents just sold their 3 bed, 3 bath 2000sq ft home on a busy street for ........drumroll......700K. Isn't that insane?
Okay, off soapbox.
Couldn't find the misty fans at
WalMart today. Bummer.
Ear infections often occur after colds...for me the telltale sign was a fever. That and a HORRIBLE night of sleep where NOTHING consoled the boys. I would say my oldest was about 6 months when he got his first ear infection. And then watch out- they often will get one in the other ear after the first is cleared up. It stinks.
Well, my parents are coming up today...one last big truckload of stuff. They go back down on Friday, sign the papers on Monday, turn the keys in and then they're up for good next week!

Yay! I've liven 10.5 years up here with no family besides DH and it will be so great.

I'm going down to their house now to have a warm dinner ready for them when they pull up- (it's an 11 hour drive from San Jose to here...it's a pain).