BuzznBelle'smom
<font color=red>There are tomato-ey paw prints all
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Good morning all! Gee, I might actually have a few seconds to respond before anyone wakes up! Actually, robert's awake, but he's all about getting to the Playstation before his sisters come down, so I'm good there.
Anyway, DH is acting MUCH, MUCH better yesterday and today. I think he realized that yes, work is getting to him. It was funny--he came home from work on time yesterday--it was just as I was taking the pies out of the oven. I asked if he could smell them from work! He loves apple pie, anything with apples and cinnamon, actually. We talked about maybe some things he can do to improve his mood, like get more sleep and take karate, with or without the kids. The kids have lost interest some, which is fine with me, but then he feels bad going without them--I said, go, get some exercise and get the agression out!
We're also SOOO excited about DVC at AKL!!! I was doing all the research in anticipation of the announcement of some new resort opening--we were also hoping for Contemporary, but we just love AKL. Never stayed there, but would kill to--it's my "dream resort" if I didn't have kids. So, we're looking at DVC more seriously-even DH is studying the info. I need the particulars on the AKL one, when they come out, as we might do a resale purchase of Beach Club instead. But we're in no rush, and of course, I haven't actually received my inheritance yet.
Oh--one thing I did want to mention, on the idea of inheriting. It's one of those funny things--you don't want to be thrilled that you're getting money, because obviously, you would trade the $ for the person any day. So I try to think about, "What would that person want this money used for." Mind you, we've buried 3 parents between DH and I, so we've thought about this more than probably most people on this thread. We got some stuff from his dad that's stocks--we just keep it there, figuring down the line it might pay for graduate school, weddings, etc.--which his dad would want. (MIL has set up trusts for the kids' college, but I don't expect that they would or should cover graduate school). The grandparents would want us to make our children's lives easier, and more fun--they wouldn't want us driving flashy cars or living the high life. Not that there's anything wrong with that, but it's not our family's "style". Anyway, I hope that makes sense.
Jill--Sorry about your ankle--I hope you're feeling better soon! Take care of it as best you can--I know it's tough when you have to carry a little one, but you don't want to damage it further.
Robin--Celeste didn't make the cut on Soarin', but I saw another little boy that couldn't be any taller than her, and they let him through. I'm not sure why the height restrictions--you're belted in, and little ones have an extra loop that the belt goes through, so they can't fall off even if they tried (assuming they're belted in properly). And it's a very gentle ride.
Tasha--You know, sometimes, just knowing you have choices makes me feel better. Once you're through with the schooling, you can make the choice on working after #2. BTW, I would say taking a 2yo is do-able, but only if you're willing to completely put their needs/wants above your own. If you aren't willing to do that, then wait. And P.S. saying that you aren't doesn't make you horrible--you work hard, you're entitled to vacation time, and a 2yo in Disney is no vacation for Mom. That said, parts of it can be lovely. Also, if Dh is there, you can take turns having some "alone" time, and there's always the Fairy Godmothers for an evening as adults.
Fabumouse--we've had a couple cats that we had to bring to the vet for one-way trips. Someone put it best as "I used to be your Mommy, but since I had kids, now I'm just your owner." Our vet will take incompatible cats and try to place them--we had one attack baby Jocelyn, another who was fine wtih J but peed on Robert's stuff (he was male--marking his territory, I think). We also had to put one cat down, but she was 17 and very sick.
Okay, party's over for me. I'm sorry I didn't catch up with everyone.
Anyway, DH is acting MUCH, MUCH better yesterday and today. I think he realized that yes, work is getting to him. It was funny--he came home from work on time yesterday--it was just as I was taking the pies out of the oven. I asked if he could smell them from work! He loves apple pie, anything with apples and cinnamon, actually. We talked about maybe some things he can do to improve his mood, like get more sleep and take karate, with or without the kids. The kids have lost interest some, which is fine with me, but then he feels bad going without them--I said, go, get some exercise and get the agression out!
We're also SOOO excited about DVC at AKL!!! I was doing all the research in anticipation of the announcement of some new resort opening--we were also hoping for Contemporary, but we just love AKL. Never stayed there, but would kill to--it's my "dream resort" if I didn't have kids. So, we're looking at DVC more seriously-even DH is studying the info. I need the particulars on the AKL one, when they come out, as we might do a resale purchase of Beach Club instead. But we're in no rush, and of course, I haven't actually received my inheritance yet.
Oh--one thing I did want to mention, on the idea of inheriting. It's one of those funny things--you don't want to be thrilled that you're getting money, because obviously, you would trade the $ for the person any day. So I try to think about, "What would that person want this money used for." Mind you, we've buried 3 parents between DH and I, so we've thought about this more than probably most people on this thread. We got some stuff from his dad that's stocks--we just keep it there, figuring down the line it might pay for graduate school, weddings, etc.--which his dad would want. (MIL has set up trusts for the kids' college, but I don't expect that they would or should cover graduate school). The grandparents would want us to make our children's lives easier, and more fun--they wouldn't want us driving flashy cars or living the high life. Not that there's anything wrong with that, but it's not our family's "style". Anyway, I hope that makes sense.
Jill--Sorry about your ankle--I hope you're feeling better soon! Take care of it as best you can--I know it's tough when you have to carry a little one, but you don't want to damage it further.
Robin--Celeste didn't make the cut on Soarin', but I saw another little boy that couldn't be any taller than her, and they let him through. I'm not sure why the height restrictions--you're belted in, and little ones have an extra loop that the belt goes through, so they can't fall off even if they tried (assuming they're belted in properly). And it's a very gentle ride.
Tasha--You know, sometimes, just knowing you have choices makes me feel better. Once you're through with the schooling, you can make the choice on working after #2. BTW, I would say taking a 2yo is do-able, but only if you're willing to completely put their needs/wants above your own. If you aren't willing to do that, then wait. And P.S. saying that you aren't doesn't make you horrible--you work hard, you're entitled to vacation time, and a 2yo in Disney is no vacation for Mom. That said, parts of it can be lovely. Also, if Dh is there, you can take turns having some "alone" time, and there's always the Fairy Godmothers for an evening as adults.
Fabumouse--we've had a couple cats that we had to bring to the vet for one-way trips. Someone put it best as "I used to be your Mommy, but since I had kids, now I'm just your owner." Our vet will take incompatible cats and try to place them--we had one attack baby Jocelyn, another who was fine wtih J but peed on Robert's stuff (he was male--marking his territory, I think). We also had to put one cat down, but she was 17 and very sick.
Okay, party's over for me. I'm sorry I didn't catch up with everyone.