So did else anyone set an alarm, jump out of bed this morning, run down the stairs, load the Disney site and THEN realize it's only the 9th? Just me? Ok then......
So the verdict is in, and camping is out. For now. We talked about it over the weekend, the first thing he asked me was if I was willing to give up some of our early ADR plans and I'm really not. Our kids are super early birds and their manners in the morning are 100X better than at dinner. It's not so much that they're bad at night just tired and getting overwhelmed. As I suspected, it was the transportation that did it. FW requires internal busses or rental golf carts to get to the park bus stop with the exception of MK which would require a boat to CR, walk to MK combo to get us there on time. Well he did the math, worked backwards and figured out what time we would have to leave the site to get to the restaurant and that was that. He's (surprisingly) still down for camping, just not on a trip where I have a ton of stuff planned. He actually suggested that we try for Halloween next year, Halloween at the Fort is supposed to be spectacular.
I was really bummed for a few days, and I might have turned into a bit of a spoiled brat for a moment there but it's ok. He did exactly what I asked him to do, which is look at the info I gave him and really think about what he wanted from this vacation. I can't ask for more than that

If the very early mornings were going to make him miserable I want to know now, not when I'm trying to get everyone out the door on that first morning. And I'm still going to Disney, staying in 2 beautiful resorts and he fully agreed to sending the kids to the Sandcastle Club one night so I get to have a date night with my husband in WS. Life could be worse.