PlutoBaby
Treat stress like a dog;pee on it and walk away.
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Ahhhhh!!! That seems too soon! I'm not ready.
Absolutely agree!!!
Isn't it crazy how much a weight gain can affect you? I definitely gained a few pounds on vacation over the last week of July.I think it's gone for the most part, but I hated how sluggish I felt over the last couple of weeks.
[COLOR="Purple"]I SO agree! I just stepped on the scale for our office's Biggest Loser competition, and I've gained 11 pounds since May! Can you say![]()
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Looks like I've got some work to do. And a big congrats to you for dropping the "nonsense"!!
First of all YOU ARE NOT ALONE and DO NOT GIVE UP!!
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First, let's review some positives. You're up and exercising!
You completed a 5K!! That gets a doubleNo matter what you think of your pace. Third, you said you lost some weight
That's more than I can manage and I've been running for a little over a year. Of course part of my problem is that I get Mcdonalds as a reward after every long run.... I know I'm horrible person but it's worked so far. Today's 'shorter' long run earned me a Subway so I'm off in the right direction LOL
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Now. Dude, I don't know what's going on with your friend, but she does not sound like a very motivational running partner. Maybe at some point, a heart to heart is in order. I'm a very independent person and like to run alone. Of course I'm also divorced and have been to Disney a couple times solo-- not for everyone. Other people definitely need the running buddy/ group to keep them going. My advice is to make this run about YOU. Focus on your own personal triumphs and don't worry about what anyone else thinks of them. Remember, there are a lot of folks who've yet to get up off the sofa and run at all!
Now I know I said focus on you. But you also said your sister is leery of running with you because she's still at a slower pace. I like the idea of running on a loop somewhere where you pass each other every so often. I run at a local park where there is a 1 mile loop. Seems to me your sister might make a much better running buddy. Maybe you don't run the same pace, but if you get up and head out, meet together, maybe go out for a healthy lunch after your run or what have you and set personal goals/ cheer each other onthis might help you stay focused on the fun
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Do you use any kind of running app? I have the Nike+ app on my ipod and I really like it. Every once in a while it gives me random cheers for things I wasn't expecting that make me feel like I did something awesome. Some are not pace oriented- some are about how often you run, or how much Nike fuel you have earned ( I personally would like the Nike fuel a lot more if I could turn it into points to buy stuff like with my Kroger plus card points LOL)
Now get out there and keep going! Mickey is waiting to cheer you on
Couldn't have said it any better. No matter how you look at it, unless you're running a relay, running is a solo sport. I love to run with my DH on occasion, as he can push me when I need it, but ever since he hurt his foot, I've become the faster endurance runner between the two of us. We only run together once a week now and his limit is only about 3-6 miles, so having his help on anything past that is no longer a possibility. Like others here, I am an independent runner girl, and that's the way I like it. Running (and the ocean) are my churches - where I go to pay my respects to the gods, whether they be the running kind or the kind with fins and tails
. You have to make it your own, own the sweat, pain, and the eventual rewards. You've already taken the hardest step of getting out the door. What you choose to do with it from now on, is entirely up to you. Only you can be the boss of your running future and what you choose to do with it. The great thing though, is the DIS'ers are ALWAYS here for you to come back to, whenever you need us!
DH and I don't run together either and we definitely don't race together.
I find that I have better luck "training" with a long-distance running friend. And by long distance, i mean we live 5 states apart from each other.We go out and run on our own, but then we text/email about it. This way, we motivate each other when we don't feel like running but we don't have to coordinate schedules, pacing, etc. We don't even talk about pacing. The only goal we have in common is to just get out there and run! Otherwise, I run by myself. Which is good b/c when I'm running, all I really want to do is listen to some music, and zone out and not be pulled in a million directions at once like I am all the rest of the day.
And though I saw so many people running with others during the W&D last year, there were just as many people running on their own. I was one of them. I made a friend at the field before the race and it was fun, but then once we started running, I was on my own. Reading people's shirts made me laugh. Looking around at the disney property being amazed at what I was doing kept my spirits up. And a lot of my concentration was taken up with weaving through people, and navigating water stops, embankments, etc. I ran alone, but I never felt alone. (Probably because there were 10,000 other people around me!). The volunteers are spectacular too - really a friendly face just when you need it!![]()

I think sometimes we need to remind ourselves that no matter if we finish in 3:30 or 1:30 it was still 13.1 miles! Be proud of yourself and for all your accomplishments![]()
