I'm looking for some Disney related advice from a good group of guys...
My wife and I were having the conversation a couple of days ago about where to go for vacation in 2011. She of course, mentioned St. Pete Beach. I said "hmmm.... maybe a day or 2...

but what do you think about Disney World???" (I'm not a beach person,

I get bored after about 2 hours. I want to do something. If I'm going to sit outside with a cold drink I'd prefer to sit with friends and family watching the deer in my woods as opposed surrounded by a mass of humanity in front of the ocean

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Here's my dilemma... We'll have about a week to go + weekends. She wants a couple of days in St. Pete, but I've already pretty much convinced her to drop that requirement if we can stay at one of the nice resorts that have a beach. We would typically be looking at value resorts only, but in this case, and if it will please her, I'd be willing to pony up the extra money. Granted I've always thought if I ever stayed in a deluxe it would be the Contemporary (I mean come on, a monorail goes through it!!! I've dreamed of staying there since I was 4). I've seen pictures and read a little bit about the different resorts, but as far as a relaxed, beach like atmosphere with a good pool what are some expert opinions? Even if the "nicer resort" card doesn't play out, I might just have to steal some of the plans that Emma's Dad has worked out and work a few days to the Gulf Coast into the mix.
Also, we're going to be taking our son on his first trip. He will be 1 on Jan 25. I know he won't remember anything, but it won't cost anymore to take him so who cares?? For us it will be all about seeing his reaction to the sights and sounds. We could maybe do mid to late June, but I'd like to wait until later in the year when the little guy is closer to 2 than 1. I'd love to go the week before labor day, but my wife coaches HS volleyball and I farm, so we would probably be looking at late Nov to early Dec to travel. The only problem is I've been told we can't go when it is too hot (and hence July was not considered) or when it is too cold to go to the pool (now I'm a bit concerned).
I'm kind of thinking of flying down on Sat or Sun (weekend 12/3 or 12/10) and staying 5 or 6 nights. I'd prefer the first week, but I'm assuming that will parade weekend. Wouldn't be a huge deal though, because it would be later in the day Sat that we'd get there and could avoid MK for the first couple of days. I've never gone anytime other than July and I have no experience with any of the currently operational resorts except POP. Any and all advice as I begin planning and trying to twist the wife's arm would be greatly appreciated!
Sorry to be long-winded, but I know there is a lot of experience around here and thought this would be a good place to solicit advice about resorts and timing. Now if you excuse me, I'll be working on some of these magic spreadsheets

I've heard so much about around here.