I don't understand the bolded language...
One difference - I've been on internet forums that were primarily support forums and others that were advice based (Dis and some travel related ones). @pineapplepalms took the words right out of my fingertips. The "Purchasing DVC" board is primarily advice based, and gives so much better advice than the DVC groups on FB. And the group here is generally quite cordial and full of great information. There is no way we would have bought DVC (either direct or resale) without the great advice here. My parents have owned various RCI and other timeshares over the last 40 years. I grew up with them, staying in them, and seeing up front the difficulties with owning them. We ultimately decided to let the timeshare company take back one of them because my mom hadn't paid maintenance fees on it for a while (she has dementia), and it would have cost more for us to pay the back fees and sell it than to just let it go. My first hand experience over 40 years led me to decide that for my style of vacationing, a timeshare of any kind probably didn't make sense, and only with little kids going to WDW frequently does DVC make sense. And even then, in 10 years we may not be going that often. The difference is that most likely in 10 years we could sell our contract fairly readily for a decent price.
By the way, @Dean never used the words "Timeshares are a fools buy." Also, there is lots of discussion here on when/where/at what price point does buying direct actually make sense. If I loved Poly, I might consider it now. (We've never stayed there).
I have to jump on and see that I agree with this. The things that Dean and others are saying may not be what others want to hear, but it is certainly not shaming. The name of this forum is "purchasing DVC", so the majority of the discussion here should be about whether purchasing is the right choice or not, and what prices can and should be for different resorts. While there are differing emotional factors involved for each individual purchaser, the one thing we all have in common is how much we can and do spend on these contracts. If someone wants to point out that a better price can be found via resale, or just renting once every five years, they are just pointing out the useful financials of those choices.
I understand both where Dean and other posters have come in with the car lease example. Looking purely from a numbers standpoint, leasing is a worse financial decision vs. purchasing. You continue to pay in perpetuity with leasing vs. having payments end after 5 years if you finance a car (buying a used car with cash is even better). I brought this point up to a friend of mine who was recently divorced with two young children, and she let me know that she had more concerns than just financial. She needed to lease a car because the maintenance was minimal and she did not have to worry about things like the tires on her car needing to be replaced when she had two kids to worry about it. Good points on her behalf. Even though it may have not been best for her wallet, for her needs, leasing was the way to go. These DVC purchases can go the same way. Some people may really want to be in a specific resort, or may need to close quickly, or whatever reason they may have, and that is ok. They should be comfortable knowing that these reasons outweigh the higher price that they are paying, and be comfortable with people posting and pointing out that they could have paid less by going a different route.