The DDA Trouble Free Zone Part 3

[babytrees]

Can a 2 year old make you feel stupid? color]

Yes a two year old can make you feel stupid!! My two did quite a bit of the time!! Now I am contending with the I don't know anythings from the 13 year old!!

Both of my girls love singing and still can sing all the words to a song after the first time they have heard it!! Cassidy was the most embarrassing at a concert she and I went to right after she turned 3. It was a wonderful group of puppeteers and they had the whole theater clapping with them...Cass turned to me and said very loudly "Why can't that man clap on the beat?"

Sounds like you are doing everything just fine....let her lead and all will be good!

 

[babytrees]

Deb-

You have every right to be upset with the Principal and teacher...it sounds like they were on the defensive from the start of your conversations.(I am betting you aren't the only parent who called!)

I like the compromise you all came up with...sounds very doable!!

I have problem with states putting conditions on money allocatted but it seems to me that the school would have had a reasonable amount of time to find something that fit the bill without so much hassle. Maybe this was a last ditch effort from them?

We'll be thinking about your family the next week!!

 

[Tammi67]

I just wanted to stop by here and officially say . I look forward to chatting with everyone.

Hi Robyn. I gave you your official welcome on the other thread. Feel free to join in our conversations anytime.

 

[bethbuchall]

Chris and I have asked Nick what level of participation he would feel comfortable with. He told us that he would go to all of the training sessions as long as he doesn't have to perform in front of anyone. He will still not be comfortable, but promises to try his hardest. He says that he thinks that the one teacher is teaching 80 kids at once. That would be 3-4 classes and it is entirely possible. He really wishes that they were learning another style of dance, but he will try. I plan to call the school tomorrow with my decision. Deb

That sounds like a perfect compromise to me! He is learning everything that they want him to, he is stepping outside his comfort zone, and yet he doesn't have to completely torture himself. If the principal and teacher give you a hard time with this solution, stick to your guns! That is more than reasonable.

Congrats on figuring out such a great solution with Nick. Good luck with the school!

Beth

 

[UP Disney]

Thank you all for your input on my school dance situation.

Sounds like he is willing to participate in the learning which is the important part (even though it is a dumb dance for boys to be learning). It sounds like you have come up with a great compromise. I don't think any school can make an after school recital mandatory anyway.

You know your son the best. From comments you have made, it is obvious that you are weighing all sides and not just jumping to a decision. Don't let the principal or teacher upset you. I'm sure they do have to deal with parents that make hasty decisions without weighing all sides. Trust yourself because you are making very good decisions!!!!

 

[Tammi67]

Deb - I'm glad you at least got to the root of the problem with Nick. I agree though, why on earth the Can-Can? Why not something that kids could relate to more or that is more relevant/funky/hip, for instance the Cha Cha Slide or similar? Can your PTA mediate between parents and the school regarding this? The compromise seems like a good plan. Good luck at the school today. Keep us posted.

 

[marcij]

Deb - for Nick


and for you

 

[my3princes]

I spoke to the principal and the teacher this morning. They have agreed with the plan that we came up with although I get the impression that they think that I am making this an issue. They said the Nick seemed very happy learning the dance yesterday. I tried to explain that Nick would never let his emotions or insecurities show in front of his peers, but it is at home that these all manifest. Geesh you'd think these people were never parents themselves, yet I know that they both have children and boys to boot. Since they are having a dress rehersal on Wednesday afternoon I think I will just pick him up and take him home early, that way he won't have to explain to his friends why he is sitting out. I'm happy with the compromise and that Nick took responsibility in making the decision. He is growing up. Thanks for all your input.

Deb

 

[Tammi67]

I'm glad that everything is worked out now. Hopefully it will all be behind you soon.

 

[my3princes]

I'm glad that everything is worked out now. Hopefully it will all be behind you soon.

We just have to make it through next Wednesday. Why does that seem like such an eternity . I'm sure it will all be fine. Hopefully we'll have a nice weekend and forget about it for a while.

Deb

 

[KMH1]

We just have to make it through next Wednesday. Why does that seem like such an eternity . I'm sure it will all be fine. Hopefully we'll have a nice weekend and forget about it for a while.

Deb

That sounds like a plan Deb! Have a great weekend!

Amy

 

[KMH1]

Amy- I got my new Birthday Express catalog today and the front cover was JoJo!!!! (or uncle JoJo as Kyle calls her ) How is the party planning coming?

Alyssa walks around with that catalog all day.

Party planning is going well. We have the invitations all printed out, but I still need to mail them out. I've purchased most of the party supplies. Instead of splurging on all JoJo supplies, I decided subtle touches would be more economical. So, we bought the JoJo napkins and a couple of the plastic tablecovers (for the cake table and food table), but everything else (plates, cups, plasticware, etc.) is bright, primary colors. It should be festive!

I still need to shop for prizes and treat bag fillers...in addition to getting the games in order, but I think I'm in pretty good shape.

Now, I need to start focusing on our Disney trip!!!

Amy

 

[KMH1]

Lindsay, you're going to read this when you get back, but I hope you're feeling better and that you had a blast in WDW!

Vicki, I hope you have a great trip!!!

Amy

 

[ReAnSt]

Yes a two year old can make you feel stupid!! My two did quite a bit of the time!! Now I am contending with the I don't know anythings from the 13 year old!!

Both of my girls love singing and still can sing all the words to a song after the first time they have heard it!! Cassidy was the most embarrassing at a concert she and I went to right after she turned 3. It was a wonderful group of puppeteers and they had the whole theater clapping with them...Cass turned to me and said very loudly "Why can't that man clap on the beat?"

Sounds like you are doing everything just fine....let her lead and all will be good!

I do that, know the words to a song or a movie after one or two times seeing it. I get given grief for it all the time. They're like you've watched that movie too many times.

Just encourage them in whatever they choose to do. Whether it is music, science or whatever. Sometimes other people might be skeptical of what they can do. Just don't show your frustration to them about what they know.

But watch this story to learn about a child who amazes others. But no one initially wanted to teach him and look what he can do.

Becky

 

[ReAnSt]

Deb,

Sounds like you are doing a great job supporting Nick. I hope everything works out smoothly and he doesn't have too many stomach problems. Sending to you and Nick.

Becky

 

[tmfranlk]

I spoke to the principal and the teacher this morning. They have agreed with the plan that we came up with although I get the impression that they think that I am making this an issue. They said the Nick seemed very happy learning the dance yesterday. I tried to explain that Nick would never let his emotions or insecurities show in front of his peers, but it is at home that these all manifest. Geesh you'd think these people were never parents themselves, yet I know that they both have children and boys to boot. Since they are having a dress rehersal on Wednesday afternoon I think I will just pick him up and take him home early, that way he won't have to explain to his friends why he is sitting out. I'm happy with the compromise and that Nick took responsibility in making the decision. He is growing up. Thanks for all your input.

Deb

I agree with you totally, Deb. I think that this is a great compromise and I know that you are proud of Nick for making such a mature decision. I think that this will be a very powerful lesson to him about what wonderful parents he has. I think that your support of him and approach has been perfect for the situation and that Nick, and Hunter, will benefit from it for years to come.

 

[kc10family]

Becky, Thank you for that clip. I will say that I do not push my DD’s to do anything except finish what we start and I never say no to any learning anything. DD#1 (Ellie) loves music and singing, so we sign all the time.

Thank you again for the info.

~Paula

 

[kc10family]

So, I have to tell you all that I should not be on here today. DH comes home tomorrow after being gone for 5 weeks. YEAH!!!! But my house is trashed and I am supposed to get the taxes ready for our CPA appt on Tuesday. Taxes doesn’t sound like it would be a big deal, but we have rental property and I didn’t get all the receipts and stuff together for that yet. We are in the hole a bit for the property and want every penny back the IRS is willing to give us. I told DH I would have it all ready when he got back. DEAR GOD I only have 24 hours left and I don’t even have much started.

And am I doing anything to fix it now… NO!!! I would rather talk with you all (always more fun) and it will come down to this. I put the girls down at 7:30 for bed, I watch the Ghost Whisperer and the get my act together and do as much as I can before midnight.

 

[babytrees]

So, I have to tell you all that I should not be on here today. DH comes home tomorrow after being gone for 5 weeks. YEAH!!!! But my house is trashed and I am supposed to get the taxes ready for our CPA appt on Tuesday. Taxes doesn’t sound like it would be a big deal, but we have rental property and I didn’t get all the receipts and stuff together for that yet. We are in the hole a bit for the property and want every penny back the IRS is willing to give us. I told DH I would have it all ready when he got back. DEAR GOD I only have 24 hours left and I don’t even have much started.

And am I doing anything to fix it now… NO!!! I would rather talk with you all (always more fun) and it will come down to this. I put the girls down at 7:30 for bed, I watch the Ghost Whisperer and the get my act together and do as much as I can before midnight.

You definitely have the addiction!! darn computer....keeps calling you back

 

[tinker1bell]

Hi all,

Just listening to the radio and they said that High School Musical is the number one album this week from a TV show.

Last time an album reaching number one from a TV show was in 1985.

Does anyone know what that was???