Your school might be required to pay the $10,000 fee to the private school, if it is deemed what is necessary for Daniel. Although more than likely they will try to offer something else such as special resources at your school, bussing him to another school in the district or bussing him to another public school which will offer the enrichment that he deserves, especially if you tell them that you feel sending him to the private school is best.
Individualized Educational Plans are very much a hot topic as for what the parents feel is appropriate and what the school feels is appropriate. There have been many lawsuits out there.

that the school is willing to work with you to get Daniel the resources he deserves.