Congratulations, Jen!
Glynis - In the future if you burn your self do not put butter or Vaseline on it. That seals in the heat and causes the burn to go deeper into the tissue. Just put cool water on it, then cover it with some loose gauze. There is some reason not to use ice, though I can't recall exactly what that reason is. An OTC burn ointment or cream would probably be good for the pain, along with some Tylenol. I am glad the Solarcaine helped! Be careful with that peanut brittle - sugar burns are REALLY painful.
Theresa - So maybe Abi deserves a little slack this time around.

Bullies never respond to those lame lectures on bullying. There was a documentary on Cinemax a couple of years ago about young teens. One of the features was about a little boy who was completely ostracized by his peers when they went to middle school. He was suicidal because he couldn't figure out how to make them like him again. They had a "bully lecture" and of course some of the worst offenders were the ones piping up in class about how bullying is wrong and they would stick up for someone being bullied.

I hope you and Abi can figure things out! The other features were about gay teens and how hard it is for them to be "out", how young teen girls are absolutely relentless in their pursuit of the boys and their really careless attitudes about sex, lots of truly terrifying stuff.
DS seems so innocent. I don't know how we are going to face the issues that 6th grade will bring!