Hi, everybody, we are here now enjoying VB very much. Maria and fellow chair-swappers, the chairs and umbrella are great! They are in beautiful condition, and are easy to tote around. (The chairs have backpack straps, and my kids have cheerfully carried them back and forth to the beach without complaint.) It has rained off and on, but we've had enough time in the sun for me to get sunburned. (I always grease up my kids properly, but neglect myself.)
Memorial Day was great! They had an entertaining DJ and music all day at the pool. It was also Pirate Day (I guess that's every Monday from Memorial Day to Labor Day). At 10am, instead of opening the pool slide, Bluebeard the Pirate hijacked it and used a watergun to keep the kids away. Then a good pirate came and led the kids in a charge up the stairs to take it back, and they all sent Bluebeard down the slide and away! It was a lot of fun. Then at noon they did a nice Memorial Day commemoration. In the afternoon was a watermelon-eating contest. My kids had a great time at the splash area too, but unfortunately now it's closed and won't be open again until at least Thursday (when we leave).

We went to the Pirate character dinner at Shutters (again, every Monday night in the summer). The family-style usually works great for us, but we had a bit of a stressful time with my 9yo DS, who for some reason has been flipping out at dinners out on this trip. But the servers and CMs were great, and they brought out different food for him, and he calmed down, and they brought Goofy and Donald (pirates) back to see him when he had recovered. Our food was very good, especially the brisket and the cornbread. (The menu is bbq.) Price is $26.99 for adults, $12.99 for kids.
Loving our first visit here -- I'm sure we'll be back! Thanks to everybody who helped build this thread -- your advice has been very helpful.