Let me start this off by saying that I am Pooh sized. Nowhere NEAR this guy but I'm not thin by any stretch of imagination. IMHO:
1. this guy's rights were not compromised by putting this pic on the net. This is from the back; nothing identifying his name, address, face, etc; was published as far as I know. Yes, he knows it's him. His family and friends know it's him. Is he embarrassed? Again, IMHO, too bad - he SHOULD be. He had to have known that a person of his girth would not fit in an airline seat. Can he fit in a regular seat at a movie theater? I think probably not. He should have purchased two seats or one in first class and he wouldn't have been photo'd and he wouldn't be embarrassed.
You might note that he's making no attempt to sit in a seat. He is simply waiting until the issue is resolved.
It should also be noted that we don't really know that he didn't buy a second ticket. We only can assume that no second seat was assigned. Perhaps he paid for two, but the ticket counter didn't assign them both because the gate agents were expected to work the oversale to get him his second seat.
2. He's sitting ON the armrests. He's damaging property by not sitting on it properly and for how long? Sheesh.
How long? Until airline employees resolve the issue. Obviously, the flight can't depart without him buckled in, so the issue will be resolved within the next few minutes.
I truly hope that the armrest of an airline seat can withstand him sitting on it for a few minutes. It's certainly going to recieve much more abuse than that during the aircraft's lifetime.
3. Safety hazards galore: how can the flight attendents squeeze through the aisle past him? How would that affect the timeliness of them getting to someone experiencing a medical emergency when every second counts? What if equipment were needed in said emergency - how would that get past him? What if there is extreme turbulence? With him sitting on the armrests how well could the seatbelt (extended and not in proper use with the air pocket between his bottom and the seat) restrain him from being dumped to either side - he'd crush someone! What if there was an emergency landing? How long would it take him to squeeze up the aisle to the emergency exit? How many people behind him wouldn't make it to the emergency exit because it took so long for him to get there - if he made it at all?
None of those questions matter, since the aircraft cannot depart the gate without him safely buckled in.
4. He's affecting the comfort of the passengers around him. That poor guy sitting next to him - 'nuf said! How is the beverage cart supposed to get past him to the front of the plane?
The passenger sitting next to him doesn't seem put out, at all. In fact, he's actually leaning in his seat toward the man.
Again, the beverage cart will not be out until after the aircraft takes off. They cannot even leave the gate until all passengers are safely belted in.
No, I don't sympathize with this guy at all. It's completely his business how large he is. I have no problem with that. But I do have a problem with arrogance, stupidity, a sense of entitlement, whatever you want to call it. He should have bought two seats or not have been allowed to board.
On full flights, he certainly should have bought two seats. Of course, we don't know that he didn't. We also don't know whether an agent advised him that the flight was full.
At the end of the day, this fubar was caused by the airline, not the passenger.