You know we don't mind.
Nah, do the UG.
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I made yummy pasta with homemade sauce, etc. Yum.
D is reading, and we just heard that his step-sister, (who tends to annoy us, but still, she's family...) has to have her right ovary removed. She has a complex cyst, and it's apparently the kind that can turn out cancerous, but even if it's not, they want to remove the ovary because the very fact that it "can produce this kind of cyst" is worrisome.
If it's not benign, she'll have to have the whole plumbing taken out.
They had pretty well decided not to have children, but just in the last 6 months or so, she's waffling (she's 41 in May), but this may just decide for her.
I know motherhood can change people, but I've always, um, supported her decision not to do it

, but it sucks to have the decision made for her, regardless. Of course, if it's benign, she might still be able to do something (they can't harvest eggs now, as the hormones needed to do that would likely grow the scary cyst.) I still don't know that I think that would be a good decision, but of course it's the best possible outcome.
Anyway, it's worrisome. Sigh. She's just been chatting with me on FB about it, and D feels like he needs to call her. Her phone calls also always last for 2 hours, without any drama happening, so I think I'm pretty free tonight.
The surgery's not scheduled yet, but happy thoughts for her, please.
I will likely be back! I need to start some

, but...
