1Princess1Prince2006
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I soooo understand where you're at right now. But, please don't quit. Stay on him, keep filing contempt, etc. I went through nearly the same thing; my ex just stopped paying for about 2 years and claimed he "couldn't" get hired. Just when it seemed like nothing was ever going to happen to that idiot, he got nailed: the state quietly explained that he was either going to jail or he was going to pay his child support. He's still not working (though he claims to be self-employed), but those checks are coming in regularly now. I'm under no illusions; I'm sure we'll revisit this process again before Leo turns 18. But it's worth hanging in and making him be responsible!
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Thanks so much V.
I get sick of hearing the same excuse over and over again but he knows I will not be backing down anytime soon. He's seeing a whole new side of me that he didn't know I had.I just saw on FB that a friend lost his wife to cancer. He and I haven't spoken since HS and I didn't know her, but for some reason it really makes me sad.![]()
I'm sorry to hear this.I had a mom friend who I posted on a message board with since our 6 year olds were born. Right around Christmas she passed away in her sleep. I had never met her but she was the sweetest person ever and her death really effected me. You just can't take life for granted.
BTW...cute pics of the ducks. Your right they are very peaceful to watch.
Thanks Jo.

Jo said:My Nanny is in hospital, she collapsed last night and her blood pressure was really low. I chatted on the phone with her yesterday for ages and to start with she was really down but then cheered up which was great. Thing is she's 89 and always been very healthy she now has a few problems and has had enough, she's ready to die![]()
Aw Jo, I'm sorry.

Jo said:Brighter news though I got a parcel from Kay the Disney Grandmom on the panel, she is so sweet, sent a letter about how great we all are and what good friendships we've made, she also sent a couple of bookmarks from her ABD Italy trip, a luggage tag that she had made with a cross stitched Mickey on, a CD she had made with all nice Disney songs and some Mickey M&M's which Ellie is going to love for her party. She's so generous!
Also remember the man who David thought I was having an affair with ages ago? Well he's coming round this afternoon to plan his ADR's, don't worry he's bringing his kids![]()
What a sweetheart to send those things. And
to the guy coming over. I assume David will be home as well?Thanks Debra.

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Well I'm back from Lindsey's music program. I took some pics and video and will post a little later. They will perform again in the afternoon and I think DR and I will go to that one as well and try to get a seat in the first row. Maybe with that DR will sit still and actually watch this time around.
Off to get lunch and enjoy the little bit of sunshine we have right now. We're supposed to get some heavy storms this afternoon and into evening.
I soooo understand where you're at right now. But, please don't quit. Stay on him, keep filing contempt, etc. I went through nearly the same thing; my ex just stopped paying for about 2 years and claimed he "couldn't" get hired. Just when it seemed like nothing was ever going to happen to that idiot, he got nailed: the state quietly explained that he was either going to jail or he was going to pay his child support. He's still not working (though he claims to be self-employed), but those checks are coming in regularly now. I'm under no illusions; I'm sure we'll revisit this process again before Leo turns 18. But it's worth hanging in and making him be responsible!


Hi T! Are you ever going to slow down?!?
so i wont get to see him until friday evening and well have to go straight up to that paintball game. Then he has to leave right after the game to go to his next shift. I hate it when my plans get changed.
i only half watched so i had no clue what was going on. 


Good luck. See you Wednesday!



I have to ask, though, in the background... the little red house.... is that a bird feeder? It's totally cute! 


Holy Moly that seems so late. Of course Lindsey gets done on the 21st and DR is done on the 27th and I think that is too early.
Not only in batting but in the field as well. 
I made it to the gym all 3 days (I'm sticking with my 3 day a week commitment! Go me!) and I've got most of my housework done. Bob's home tomorrow. I am working in the library for the morning, but then I'll be home.