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Do you taste a grape before you buy a bag? I don’t. I feel like it’s stealing.
No, I don't - for the same reason as you and because they're not washed yet.
Do you taste a grape before you buy a bag? I don’t. I feel like it’s stealing.
I’ve never done that. I worked in a supermarket and we were taught that it is stealing. (If everyone does it, costs add up.) I do like my grapes crunchy and even tart, so I won’t buy ones that look soft. I can tell just by looking which are the ones I like.
I could see that at a farmer’s market. Samples are a different story.Depends on who's selling. I've certainly been to farmers markets where there were samples, although they weren't specifically to test one piece of fruit in a bunch. I've been to one where there were rumors that people have been banned for taking samples. One specific person (a reporter) was banned from the store for reporting about it. I was at that store once when I asked an employee about some avocado variety I was unfamiliar with, where he pulled out his knife and cut one right there for me to try out.

I could see that at a farmer’s market. Samples are a different story.
I was thinking after I posted the other day, not only were we taught it was stealing, there were actually incentives for us to try to stop people from sampling. Because, for some people, it’s not just one grape - it’s a handful, and back for seconds and thirds, or a handful of cherries, or a peach, or handing the kid in the cart a banana, etc. (Before weighing.) Obviously this can become a very costly problem across a large chain of supermarkets when you think of how many shoppers there are day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year. I’d be curious to know how it’s handled today, given that confronting people in supermarkets (or elsewhere) can now fairly easily result in unwarranted violence.Maybe that’s what’s driving some of this being more acceptable today - grocers probably don’t like it, but are reluctant to have their employees say anything. Something to think about while shopping. I wouldn’t want to be that shopper that employees are watching and talking about eating and squeezing the grapes!
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I’m thinking of a lady I knew, slightly nuts, who used to go into Whole Foods and ”sample” all the hot and cold foods at the buffets. For her, it was more of a “free lunch”; she did it all the time as she lived nearby - she’d even help herself to the soups! She was told repeatedly not to do it, but she did it for years, until they eventually brought the hammer down. They‘d see her coming. She was mad when she couldn’t do it anymore, but to her it was sort of a joke, to see how far she could get. One grape probably isn’t going to set off any alarms, but you realize when you work in a supermarket that there are some people - well, quite a few, actually - who like to push the envelope farther than that.I'm thinking about it today since Memorial Day is generally the busiest day for U-pick cherries around here. There's an unwritten rule that one can sample cherries. Some say don't go overboard, although the general rule is to do it while in the orchard and don't just pocket cherries without paying A lot of posted rules say no eating any fruit unless it's paid for, but I've never seen anyone even get a warning.
I've seen a few concessions to sampling. It was years ago, but there used to be bulk Brach's candy sold at most supermarkets around here. I saw sampling going on, but after a while they put in a small locked box with a slot for coins. It might have said 5 or 10 cents.
I’m thinking of a lady I knew, slightly nuts, who used to go into Whole Foods and ”sample” all the hot and cold foods at the buffets. For her, it was more of a “free lunch”; she did it all the time as she lived nearby - she’d even help herself to the soups! She was told repeatedly not to do it, but she did it for years, until they eventually brought the hammer down. They‘d see her coming. She was mad when she couldn’t do it anymore, but to her it was sort of a joke, to see how far she could get. One grape probably isn’t going to set off any alarms, but you realize when you work in a supermarket that there are some people - well, quite a few, actually - who like to push the envelope farther than that.
The young employee was not wrong.I do not taste test. I have found that if the grapes pull off easily from the stems, they are usually sweet. So I just try a few that way. I was in Costco a long time back and my husband took a grape off a bunch to taste it. A young employee loudly informed us that we were stealing and could be arrested. I was flabbergasted.
I've certainly seen this at olive bars where they would have toothpicks and a trash can.
Trader Joe's takes this to a different level, although I'm pretty sure that's on hold for now. Not just the standard sample bar, but supposedly that anyone can ask to sample foods or other items. Not sure what they do with the rest of the package though. I've never asked to sample anything at TJ's other than at the sample bar or the coffee.
I don’t sample grapes, but I do touch six or seven per bag to make sure they are all firm, and I repeat this for as many bags as necessary. So for all you people who are tasting the grapes… my fingers have been all over them![]()
LOL! You want to talk sour grapes--let's talk about those silly cotton candy grapes that cost the same amount as a house payment!Well if you ask me this whole thread is just about sour grapes.![]()
Good grief, someone at school introduced those to one of my kids and I almost dies when I realized what those puppies cost. If I saw someone sampling one of those first, I might feel differently about things, since a single one of those probably cost a dollar and a half. 
I thought $4.00/lb was bad! That’s why I try them. I bought $15 worth of grapes and I want to make sure they are good. Glad you have never gotten bad onesI don’t - I order my produce online from a local distributor and they deliver the next day. My favorite is cotton candy grapes and they run around 8.00 a pound but have never gotten a bad one!
I don't think one grape would add more than a penny to the total cost, so -- yes -- while it's technically stealing, I wouldn't worry over it.Do you taste a grape before you buy a bag? I don’t. I feel like it’s stealing. But so often I’ll buy a bag and they are so sour. We end up throwing most of them away. ☹ I’m so tempted to start tasting.
Let's think that through ... this employee was suggesting that he'd call the police in and have you hauled away with a report of "theft of two grapes". The police would laugh their butts off, and it could possibly haul them away from where they're really needed.I do not taste test. I have found that if the grapes pull off easily from the stems, they are usually sweet. So I just try a few that way. I was in Costco a long time back and my husband took a grape off a bunch to taste it. A young employee loudly informed us that we were stealing and could be arrested. I was flabbergasted.
I think we all do that -- if we want more (or less) grapes, peaches, whatever. I don't necessarily want the amount they've pre-packaged.When grapes are pre-bagged but priced by the pound rather than the package, I have no qualms about taking a bunch or two out of a large bag and putting them in a produce bag. No cashier has ever blinked an eye and why should I buy more than I need?
I've not tried the cotton candy grapes -- what're they like?I thought $4.00/lb was bad! That’s why I try them. I bought $15 worth of grapes and I want to make sure they are good. Glad you have never gotten bad onesI like the cotton candy ones too.
I’m gen-x. I totally eat raw cookie doughYes I have and it hasn't killed me yet and I haven't been arrested either.
Sometimes if someone is close by they'll ask me if they should buy them or not.
I also eat raw cookie dough..... I was born in the 60's, I'm a rebel by generation.