Tammi & Jim - Two Parents alone at DisneyWorld (How do you spell relax?)

TammiMcMan

Ohana
Joined
Jun 10, 2002
Messages
6,308
Jim - 39, no longer a massage virgin
Tammi - 40, knows how to enjoy herself


Scene 3 - Relaxing, relaxing and while we’re at it, how about some more relaxing

Sunday morning arrived and the weather forecast was for another beautiful day with a high of 82. Once again, I was up before 8am and after a quick shower, I went down to the concierge lounge to enjoy a light breakfast and the newspaper. It was definitely clearing out and nearly all the tables were available. DH joined me and wanted to know what the plans were for today. I basically had to give him a questionnaire before going on this vacation, because otherwise he would offer no help or suggestions what so ever. After 20 years of marriage and numerous trips to Disney, I did know what he liked and didn’t like, so planning wasn’t really that hard. I told him that this morning was the spa and he asked me what I was going to have done. I informed him that I was going to have a facial and he was going to have a massage, surprise! The looks on his face ranged from horror to quizzical. He had never had a massage and for the next 20 minutes I was bombarded by questions. What should he wear? Would she see him naked? How could I allow anyone else to touch his body? He felt a little bit better after I took him through step by step and assured him that he would feel comfortable. We made our way over to the spa building and he went his way while I went mine. For 10am, the women’s lounge was very crowded and there was a slight awkwardness, as they had to allow a plumber in to fix one of the sinks in the bathroom. I’m not a modest person by nature, but there were a few women who seemed to be very uncomfortable. My name was soon called, so off I went to the treatment room. I’ve had many spa treatments, but I honestly find a facial to be the most relaxing. After 50 minutes, my face was glowing and soft as a baby’s you know what. I waited on the front porch for my husband to emerge. Within minutes he was literally bouncing out the door. It ended up being the best present I’ve ever given him and he continued to talk about it for the rest of the day.

It was nearing noontime and we were both starting to get hungry, so we decided to get the car and drive over to Boardwalk for some shopping and lunch. We had already been valet parked at the Grand Floridian, so we could use that service at any of the other resorts and only pay the tip. We went through a few shops and DH was so excited to find a Dory pin. She’s one of his favorites and it ended up being a great find, because we never saw the pin again during our stay. He also found a Dopey pin that he liked. His lanyard was starting to fill up, but mine was still empty. We decided to check out the ESPN Club for lunch. I was surprised to see that there were still many tables available in the lounge even though it was the wildcard weekend. We had a great time and ended up staying there for close to 3 hours. We debated on going into Epcot or MGM, but I knew that DH was looking for a nap, so we went back to the GF instead. Jim grabbed his spa things when we got back and headed down for a sauna and steam. I checked out the lounge offerings and had a nice relaxing afternoon tea. I stopped in at the Mercantile and finally got some pins for myself. They now have these beautiful cameo style pins with some of the princess’s on them. I found a green one with Tinkerbelle. They also had a birthday pin and anniversary pin. I’m not a trader, I just enjoy buying pins that mean something to me. Armed with a fully stocked lanyard, I decided to hop onto the monorail and go back into the Magic Kingdom. This is the first time that I’ve been completely alone and I must say that I did enjoy myself. I stopped and saw things that I typically wouldn’t even with being there just with my husband. A word of warning though, if you are traveling alone, don’t wear your guest of honor badge. For those of you not familiar with these, they are basically name tags with Mickey on them. I don’t think they resemble cast member badges in any way, but I can’t tell you how many times I was stopped and asked about parade routes, fireworks schedule and the nearest bathroom. It did get me thinking about an early retirement though and a future Disney job. On the way back to the GF, I opted for the boat ride again. It was lovely and gave me some time to think. Here we were celebrating our 20th anniversary and Jim was probably sleeping in the sauna while I had strolled through the MK by myself. I came to the conclusion that this is the reason why we’ve been happily married for so long and I know we’ll be together forever. Yes there are times when you compromise and do something you don’t want to because you’re other half enjoys it. But if there are also instances when you can be comfortable letting go of each other for a little while, well that’s the magic.

This evening we had dinner reservations at Narcoossee’s. This was a big dilemma for me. I wanted something special, but we’re really not the Victoria & Albert type. In the past we’ve done the California Grill and Jiko’s, both of which were fantastic, but it had been years since we ate at Narcoossee’s. I thought that something overlooking the water would be nice. Jim and I finally hook up at the room and dress for dinner. Right before we leave, there’s a knock on the door from room service. She brings in a bottle of champagne on ice, glasses and a beautiful red rose, all compliments of the Grand Floridian. Another wonderful surprise. We decided to open it later this evening and went down to dinner. We waited only about 5 minutes for our table and it was overlooking the water, but there was a slight problem. The table behind us consisted of parents and their two children. The parents were chatting, drinking wine and paying absolutely no attention to their kids, who had pushed their chairs up against mine and were playing a game of “lets climb over as many as we can”, which included the one that I was sitting next to. My husband didn’t even have to raise his hand, the host saw what was going on and immediately came over with an offer to move us. Transported to the other side of the restaurant we settled in with a bottle of Merlot and had a wonderful meal of filet mignon. It was served over red mashed potatoes, assorted vegetables and a mushroom sauce. The electric water pageant was going by just as we were drinking our coffee. We made it back to the concierge lounge just in time to grab some evening desserts and brought them back to our room to enjoy with the champagne. We fell asleep again watching the castle change colors.

Tomorrow we are off to Epcot and maybe Mission Space.
 
Wow, what a relaxing day! Sounds like you guys are having a great anniversary trip. Can't wait to read the next part.
 
Just like IloveDMB, I can't wait to read more. Keep 'em comin', TammiMcMan.
 
I'm so jealous. No really, it sounds like you are having a great time.

Can't wait for the next report.

Byrd
:teacher: :teacher: :teacher: :teacher: :teacher: :teacher: :teacher:
 

Your report sounds so enchanting. Congratulations on your wedding anniversary. It is so inspiring and encouraging.

:wave2:
 
Wow! Reading your trip report is like taking a bubble bath in the afternoon. I have always thought that it would be too sad to go to Disney without the kids but this sounds so relaxing. I am happy that your trip turned out to be so special.
 
I really did think that I would hate being there without the kids, but there is a lot to see when you're not chasing after a 7 year old. I was amazed at how many hidden spots we found.

5 days was a perfect amount of time for us. It gave us some relaxing days and also some days to do things that we wouldn't normally have accomplished with the kids in tow. It also helped that the kids were so happy for us. Everytime we called they asked about our day and were glad that we were enjoying ourselves. The oldest two are 18 and 13 and old enough to appreciate how much we give to them throughout the year. My 7 year old thought it was cute that we were going away together and only cried for me once.

Our next trip will be a family trip to Ireland for a wedding and then hopefully we'll all get back to Disney next year. Of course, it's probably not too early to start planning our 25th, right?
 
Wonderful report ~ Thanx for sharing.
 
Your description of your husband's face when you told him about his surprise massage made me laugh, as that was exactly my reaction when my DH surprised me on our honeymoon trip with a massage at the GF spa. I was totally unprepared, had already applied my makeup and was expecting to go to the MK. I was so nervous when my male masseuse called my name, could not relax, and all I could think about during my massage was how my makeup was now ruined as I had oil all over my face and hair, and how could I now go to the MK after my massage looking like that. Poor DH couldn't believe I was upset about my "gift". The next time I booked a massage I requested a female, and was much more relaxed about it and enjoyed it. I just was not comfortable with another man touching me.:o
 





New Posts










Save Up to 30% on Rooms at Walt Disney World!

Save up to 30% on rooms at select Disney Resorts Collection hotels when you stay 5 consecutive nights or longer in late summer and early fall. Plus, enjoy other savings for shorter stays.This offer is valid for stays most nights from August 1 to October 11, 2025.
CLICK HERE













DIS Facebook DIS youtube DIS Instagram DIS Pinterest

Back
Top