declansdad
DIS Dad #639 New Brunswick, Canada
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She kept trying to dig, albeit it in a pathetic fashion. When she tried to stay positive and encourage the others to keep trying (never getting rude or sniping or blaming or in any way being negative) the ONLY response NBA gave in return was negative. The bit about "the only thing you're good for is cheerleading" was just one more example. Although he tried to say he really meant it as a compliment, it was clear he was slamming her as being barely worthy of breathing the same air as him. Why try to say he was paying her a compliment when clearly he was insulting her? It's hard to be positive toward 2 teammates who openly despise you and one who is just a little more subtle about it. NBA knows nothing about teamwork. He only wants to work with his buddies. You work with anyone who is on your team, even if you despise them, in order to win a challenge.
She was damned if she did and damned if she didn't. If she tried to stay positive and be a team player, they insulted her to her face and essentially told her to shut up, even in the middle of a challenge. If she spoke up for herself, she was being a nagging pest who didn't know when to shut up. I guarantee you, had she been silent, they would have made fun of her and said she was sulking or pouting. There is not one single thing she could have done since the first day she arrived to redeem herself because they acted with a pack mentality as bullies will do and identified her as the weakest link. Sort of like the injured wildebeest. And if you're another potential piece of prey for the predators, you keep the finger pointed at that injured wildebeest because as long as the target is on her back, it isn't on yours.
I'm not saying she was likeable. She was annoying. She was not great at challenges. She was the weakest link. I would probably have voted her out too, under certain circumstances. But NBA and bounty hunter have a level of antipathy and condescension toward her that is so out of proportion that they really have taken on a bully pack personality and it's reached a level that is unsettling to me. I've seen too many people with that personality trait not to recognize it. Alone, they might be okay, but the two of them have found each other and they feed off one another. My hinkymeter goes off when they are onscreen. It just does. But then, I have a major aversion to bullies. I don't have to like their victims in order to see that they are indeed being bullies.
Even if she had never said a word, they would have still treated her like dirt. It's just who they are. No matter what she said, how much or how little she said, if she won or lost a challenge for them, whether she made a valid point or not, it would not have mattered. Her words and actions mean NOTHING to them. Make fire? Doesn't matter. They just know she's the injured wildebeest and it's their instinct to zero in on her. Cydney is a stronger, more physically fit wildebeest and she's fooled herself into thinking the predators actually like her and won't take her out in a New York minute. She's wrong.
Once they merge, it will be interesting to see what happens if the two guys stay together. Soon, people will want to send NBA home because they won't want to keep him around too long since he's a big, strong guy. (Although, I think he's not that great at challenges.) You let bounty hunter throw some foot skin in the water pot with the other players and he's going to be sent packing soon too. They can all three go home next as far as I'm concerned. If you added up the brain power of the entire brawn tribe from the very beginning of the season, you might have the IQ of one average human. And I don't think they're even that brawny.
As much as I don't care for the two guys, she never helped herself and I was happy to see her go.