thanks all!
we just got back. I loved most of it, I just felt like the action scenes were a bit more destructive than really needed to be, and were way too long. By the last one I think I even rolled my eyes. LOVED the way they handled the back story/origin story. and definitely enjoyed the eye candy...superman is HOT.
As for the family, dh loved it, DS11 and DS9 both loved it. It was too much for DD9 She was terrified. And this is a girl who has seen all the avenger/avenger character movies without any problem. Probably doesn't help that she was at a sleepover last night and was overtired, but I would say if I had to do it all over again I wouldn't have brought her.