String's Atkin's Journal (Please Comment)

[Strings]

Well, that is over. PG was nasty, but she didn't lose it. I walked out and threw up as soon as I got home. Sorry, if that is TMI, but I just feel sick about this. I'm really frusrtated. I think if this thing had been in a court other than family court, I wouldn't have to deal with it. It is a criminal case involving an adault, not a custody hearing. Right now the only thing I am feeling is anger.

I have had no further transgressions on my diet. I will hit journals tonight bacause Won doesn't want to talk right now. I think it will be Sunday before he is ready. I have learned not to push on this one. It only keeps him quiet. I do know that both brothers and his father have talked to him.

My lawyer will let me know what happens at the heaing tomorrow. I'm glad I'm not there. I work tomorrow night, so I am hoping to get a nap in tomorrow afternoon. Saturday we are going to the vow renewal of Won's best friend's parents. The mass is at 4, so I won't get much sleep. I will probably next be able to hit journals Sunday morning.

Take care,
Beth

 

[LAinSEA]

Beth:

You were extremely brave in going over to see your mother-in-law and enduring her lawyer and her threats. I can't understand her playing the race card when it is you who are different in their family and not her. (Well maybe I would understand that he has to defend her, but that was uncalled for.)

All you and Won have wanted was for her to treat you with respect and to respect the rules you have for your family and especially the dietary rules for your daughters health. That is not too much to ask. It was she who escalated the situation. I hope the doctor has the entire history and picture, as well as the attorney.

Take some time to breathe, read stories with Katie, relax. I'm proud of you for limiting yourself to only a cup of ice cream. What a difference you've made in your life this year! Your choices for food and your fitness level is incredible. Don't let anyone keep you from being healthy or happy.

Your DH will talk when he's ready. Guys process information differently. I can't imagine the strain this is causing for you both. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Thanks again for all your positive support, I couldn't do it without you either.

-Laurie

 

[Tera]

Beth -

Just remember to take care of YOURSELF! I know you want to take care of DH and Katie, but if you get sick, than you won't be able to take care of them. Your doing so awesome on juggling home, work and yourself and then dealing with all this stuff with PG. Just take a breather and you'll get through this

Sending

 

[AuroraluvsPhillip]

Beth,
I can imagine the stress you are going through right now, but you are a strong, giving person and you are doing the right things right now. You are listening to your body, giving it exercise and rest as need be. Forget about the ice cream...no big deal.

When our lives feel totally out of control and crazy, I find that the maxim "One day at a time" changes into "One hour or one minute at a time." Just do what you can and keep yourself, Won and Katie first, which sounds like what you're doing.

Hang in there, Beth. We're all with you in this....

Jean

 

[Strings]

Just a short post about weigh in. 211.5. I am down 2.5 pounds this week. It also means that I get my new clippie. It took months to get this one, so I am very excited about it. I'm off to the Y. Thanks again, because I certainly wouldn't have lost 57 pounds without you guys.
Beth

Well, I tried to get my new clippie, but I am only getting half screen in the edit signature, so I can't submit modifications. I'll try later. Ugh, I wanted to see it

 

[KLH 1973]

Congrats on new clip...can't wait to see it. Have fun at the Y.

Kristin

 

[Tera]

That's AWESOME Beth!! Good for you for sticking it out and getting that new clippie. Keep up the great work

Teresa

 

[toystoryduo]

Yeah Beth!!!! I can't wait to see your new clippie!! Woohoo!!! Congratulations girl! You deserve it!!!

Have a wonderful, peaceful day today.

Tracy

 

[LovesDoomBuggies]

Beth! I just wanted you to know I tried the Russell Stover mint patties-YUM! They don't even taste sugar-free. They will definitely get me through a sugar-fix. Thank you for the tip!

 

[LAinSEA]

Beth:

Congrats on the new clippie - I sure hope that we all can admire it soon too!

I do hope that you have some peace this weekend - I know you are probably working too. Like Jean says, just take it one day at a time...and we are all here for you.

-Laurie

 

[Princess Michelle]

BETH!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!! Woo Hoo! A great loss and a new clippie!!!

 

[wilderness01]

Congrats on your soon to be new clippie. I'm sorry yesterday was so stressful for you. Take care.

 

[luvmydogs]

Good Morning Beth!

Congratulations on your terrific weigh-in and brand new clippie! I can't wait to see it!

Thank you so much for stopping by my journal--your words truly mean so much.

Have a lovely, peaceful day.

 

[DoeWDW]

A NEW CLIPPIE!!!!

I decided to throw the clippie party, even if we can't see it yet!!


You've done GREAT staying on track through so much, Beth!! I believe that living healthy is truly your way of life now. Many congratulations on the new clippie and your wonderful success!!

May your day be filled with smiles and love, blissfully stress-free and peaceful.

 

[vald1977]

:thewave: :thewave: I'm joining the clippie party! I can't wait to see that shiny new clippie. I'm sure it will look fabulous on you .

Wishing you a peaceful Sunday, Beth !

 

[lulu201]

Hi, Beth! How's this weekend been going! Congratulations on your new clippie, but I'm going to save my celebratory smilies for when it comes into the picture. . .it IS going to come up in your siggie soon, isn't it?

I hope that today finds you in a peaceful place.
Erin

 

[Strings]

Hi All,

Thanks for the clippie party without a guest of honor. I'm still having problems, so I have PM'd Lisatx for help. Half of my profile screen seems to be missing, and I am not sure what is going on.

I have been having a horrible time of it. I got called at the Y and told to get over to the courthouse immediately. the judge has decided that based on the psychiatrist's reccommendation, that PG needs outpatient therapy once a week. She will be reevaluated at that time. I am also to strongly reconsider letting Katie see her grandmother, and he is sure everything can bwe resolved amicably. Just thinking about it, I'm The restraining order is still in effect for 45 more days. I will have to reapply at that time. The judge told PG that she can't see Katie because it is STILL at the parents discretion. I just don't know what else to do. I played it by the rules, but I just got a swift kick in the behind. I am glad that she will be going to therapy, but I think she needed an actual slap on the wrist. I wanted at least community service.

Work was horrible, I'll leave it at that.

Last night we went to the vow renewal/reception. Won and I had dedcided to eat what we wanted, and no guilt involved. I was OP, until I went to the restroom, and came back to see a piece of cheesecake on my plate. It was quite honestly the best cake I've ever had. I have no guilt over that, or the single glass of wine. The reception was cool. They had a professional ballroom dancing couple perform, and a belly dancer. Then they gave lessons. It was a lot of fun, and we were able to not have worries for a bit.

So far I am doing well today. We are going to dinner with My rents to celebrate Won's bday, which was yesterday. I will take a wlak tonight, if I feel up to it. I am not sleeping well, and it is starting to catch up to me. I just want a nap. I will probably hit journals sometime tonight.

Have a great Sunday,
Beth

 

[lulu201]

, Beth. I'm sorry that things feel so dark around you right now. I know that things didn't turn out as you'd have liked; I don't have any other words to comfort you with. . .but you know that I care and your WISH buddies and I are here to share your pain, frustration, and confusion.

Erin

 

[LAinSEA]

Beth:

I'm so glad you were able to enjoy yourself, if even for a short while. You and Won definitely deserve some time out.

All I can say about PG is that at least she will receive some counseling...I'm not sure if once a week is enough nor is it punishment enough for her behavior. Given this country's situation with child kidnapping and endangerment, I would have expected the judge to be harsher in his admonishments. It was, though, her "first" offense with the law. And most offenders, regardless of offense, get leniency the first time around.

Stay vigilent and hope for the best. PG needs to modify her behavior and understand that she caused this rift in the family and not you. If she can change her attitude and have respect for you, your family, and your rules concerning Katie, I'm sure that you would let her visit with her granddaughter with supervision. But I would say that there is much work to be done first.

-Laurie

 

[wilderness01]

I'm sorry Beth about the judge's ruling. Can you guys get a copy of the Doc's report? Did the fact that this was a fellow doctor's wife have anything to do with the seemingly not so harsh outcome? It just smells fishy. I know first time offenders are not judged as harshly but she tried to kidnap your daughter and violated her restraining order. How is your husband? This woman is sick. Why would the judge think you would want to expose your daughter to her? Again I am sorry for you. Try to take it easy and relax a little. I don't want you getting sick from all the stress.