This is mostly just a vent!
We are less than 3 weeks away from our first-and-possibly-only Disney trip and I thought I had it all planned out. We picked the least crowded week that we could, using multiple crown planners, back in the spring when we booked. Youngest DS (6yo) has a primary immune deficiency and has had back to back illnesses for the past month, so I know his system is not even at his best-luckily so far it hasn't turned into anything more serious. I am going to ask for the stroller as a wheelchair tag to keep him a safer distance from people and surfaces in the queues and give him a place to rest when he tires out after a little while of walking. We made a plan on using FP as much as possible also, to keep him in smaller crowds, and in confined areas for less time. But now I am reading on these boards that the crowds have been unexpectedly HUGE this fall. And the regular FP system most likely won't be available to us in 3 weeks when we arrive. We do have magic bands so we can schedule 3 FP+ attractions per day, but we planned on taking an afternoon break so DS could rest and get out of the worst of the crowds and the heat (if applicable- I heard it has been way hotter than normal too, something else we tried to avoid!) and then park hopping later in the day. FP+ doesn't work with hopping. I never thought that we would even be close to requesting assistance other than the wheelchair tag, but now I am thinking it might be better for him, so he can wait in at least a less confined area a little farther away from the crowded queues? Ugh. I can't stand when my "plans" go awry!
