One of the reasons why I stopped posting here is that it is almost impossible to have a rational, reasonable debate because there are so many people who get overly emotional, or don't read the facts, or resort to name calling and other juvenile behaviour.
Unfortunately this thread has deteriorated to this point, which is no surprise. There have been many parents over the years who have vehemently stated that they will NOT pay seat fees (and now boarding fees) yet they WILL demand that other people who did pay those fees move. They have said that they don't care that anyone may have a personal situation which precludes them from moving, and that they don't care that they did choose to pay extra for their seat.
Now we see the same comments with SW EB. Yet that group which feels the need to defend such behaviour then turns around and tries to mock the reasonable comments.
There may have been one or two people who said that they would not move out of a paid seat under any circumstance, but the vast majority over the years have tried to explain why they (or their child, or their parent, etc) cannot always move, and why they do choose to pay more for their seat.
Now those same reasoned posts are being accused of such vile behaviour as not helping other during an emergency. That came up here and on the 'other' thread. I can assure you having been in many emergency situations over the years that nobody knows how they may react, and often it is the children behaving better than the parents because children are taught to follow direction in school. Often it is the strangers doing better than a spouse to calm someone down.
I think that is very sad but very predicatable that yet again what could have been a reasonsed, compelling debate with factual information has been derailed into finger pointing and name calling and hyperbole by those who themselves have stated that they will behave badly.
Fortunately in real life people are not as entitled and judgemental as so many are here, or appear to be. Again, nobody knows what burdens someone else may be carrying, and to only care about yourself and your situation is selfish. So is assuming that your needs and your sitatuation take precedence over all others.
For those who feel that they need a certain seating arrangement, it makes sense to pay for a seat. For those who feel that they must ask others to move, politely requesting instead of demanding goes a lot further and usually has better results. And there may well be times when people say that they are unable to move, and they are certainly within their rights to do so.
My apologies to our esteemed moderator, but she knows well my feelings on this subject and why I chose to leave this website. Hopefully the discussion can continue in a reasonable fashion without the hyperbole and extremes shown by some posters, so that readers can try and learn. For those who just want the facts, again I strongly suggest moving to
www.flyertalk.com for factual information about early boarding.