Here are a few I like to make:
PECAN PIE TARTS
Ingredients
6 oz cream cheese
1 c. butter, softened
2 c. all-purpose flour
1/4 c. butter, softened
1 1/2 c. packed brown sugar
2 eggs
2 t. vanilla extract
1 3/4 c. chopped pecans
Directions
(1) Preheat oven to 325 degrees.
(2) Grease 30 tart tins or muffin cups and set aside.
(3) To Make Crust: In a medium mixing bowl cream together cream cheese and 1 cup butter until light and fluffy. Blend in flour, 1/2 cup at a time, forming a smooth dough. Roll into 30 equal balls and press one into each greased tin so it lines the bottom and sides, like a pie crust.
(4) To Make Filling: In a medium mixing bowl cream together 1/4 cup butter and sugar until light and fluffy. Beat in eggs and vanilla until thoroughly blended. Stir in pecans. Fill each lined tin half full. Mixture will rise as it bakes.
(5) Bake in preheated oven for 25 minutes, or until lightly browned. Let cool in tins, then use the end of a table knife to flip each tart out of its tin.
HUMMINGBIRD CUPCAKES - makes 24 or you could do mini-muffins if you really wanted to stretch it
Ingredients
3 c. all-purpose flour
1 t. baking soda
1 t. cinnamon
1/2 t. salt
2 sticks unsalted butter, melted & cooled
2 t. vanilla extract
2 c. sugar
3 large eggs
2 c. mashed ripe banana (roughly 3 large bananas)
8 oz. can crushed pineapple, drained
1 c. chopped pecans
1 c. unsweetened coconut
Cream cheese frosting (my granny makes homemade, but I usually use store-bought and it's fine)
Directions
(1) Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Line cupcake pan with liners and set aside. In a medium bowl, whisk flour, baking soda, cinnamon, and salt and set aside.
(2) With electric mixer, beat butter, vanilla and sugar until combined. Add eggs, one at a time, incorporating each before adding the next. Beat at medium speed until mix is pale and fluffy (about 3 min).
(3) In a medium bowl, stir together banana, pineapple, pecans and coconut. Add to the egg mixture, mixing until just combined. Stir in flour mixture.
(4) Divide batter evenly amoung liners, filling about 2/3 full. Bake for about 14 minutes, then rotate pan. Bake about 14 additional minutes or until cupcakes are golden and baked through.
(5) Transfer to wire rack to cool completely. Once cooled, top with cream cheese frosting.
COFFEE PUNCH (served at almost every wedding shower or open house I've ever attended

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Ingredients
2 qts vanilla ice cream, softened OR 2 qts chocolate ice cream, softened (if you want more of a mocha taste)
2 qts strong brewed coffee, cooled
2 c. milk
1/2 c. sugar
1 T. vanilla extract
2 c. whipping cream, whipped (if desired)
Directions
(1) Combine the coffee, milk, sugar and vanilla; stir thoroughly. Chill.
(2) Scoop the ice cream into a large punch bowl. Pour the coffee mixture over the ice cream, stirring gently.
(3) Top with whipped cream (if desired).
Also, I've never tried them, but you just couldn't get more Southern than these:
Cheesy shrimp on grits toast
http://www.pauladeen.com/index.php/recipes/view2/cheesy_shrimp_on_grits_toast/