It's a little expensive, but Hanna Andersson clothes are all very soft. My DD (10) won't wear jeans, but I just ordered her a pair from them with all elastic waist (I just got the box, and haven't opened it yet). They have nice soft pants and tops, and a lot of their clothes are unisex. My daughter loves their playdresses and matching leggings, too, and she's been wearing them for 7 or 8 years - usually can get two years' wear out of them also. She's very tomboy, so that is as dressy as she'll get. Their sweatpants and matching jackets are nice and soft, and so durable. You can frequently get two years out of them - and my kids grow fast! They cost too much, really, but for us it's worth it, as my kids don't have a lot of clothes (they wear uniforms, which I love, saves $$ and stress).