so very sad...local news story (long post)

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how terribly sad is this? it just makes me so angry to hear things like this...there are people in this world who would make amazing parents who desperately want a child, but are having difficulty in conceiving. and then there are parents like this...:mad:

Father admits scalding baby, authorities say
Child welfare workers twice had been told of bruises on girl, who now is clinging to life.

By Vic Ryckaert
vic.ryckaert@indystar.com
March 25, 2004

Twice in the past month, child welfare workers had been told that 16-week-old Alexia Meineke faced abuse at home.

But they left her in the care of her parents, and now she is clinging to life with burns on her face, ears and torso after, prosecutors say, her father tortured her with scalding water.

Anthony Meineke, 18, was charged with seven felonies Wednesday. Prosecutor Carl Brizzi said Alexia is in critical condition at Riley Hospital for Children and may not survive.

"This is one of those cases that demonstrates man's capacity to commit evil against other human beings," Brizzi said. "I can't explain what the motive could be for the birth father of this young 4-month-old girl to torture her in such a way."

Officials with the Family and Social Services Administration could not be reached for comment. Public records did not show what action was taken by child welfare workers to protect the child.

Meineke was arrested Friday after he called medics to a home in the 5800 block of Lawton Loop, West Drive. According to court records, Alexia was rushed to Community Hospital North, where she was treated for burns, fractured ribs and a fractured skull.

The child's mother, Amie Hammer, was at work and school when the abuse occurred, Brizzi said. Meineke, a restaurant worker, does not live at the home, but prosecutors said he went there several times a week to care for his daughter.

When paramedics arrived Friday, police said, Meineke claimed he accidentally had spilled hot coffee on Alexia. Police found a broken cup and coffee on the floor. Later, police say, Meineke admitted staging the scene and told them he bit, hit and scalded the baby because she would not stop crying.

In statements to Lawrence police, Meineke likened Alexia's screams to fingernails on a chalkboard.

Dr. Jim Koumanis told police the baby is in pain and will be permanently disfigured.

"She will require multiple surgeries" throughout her life if she survives, Dr. Antoinette Laskey told police, "and will experience great pain."

Trouble for Alexia first surfaced Feb. 20. That's when Community Hospital North workers notified the state's Office of Families and Children of suspicious bruises on the infant. Her father brought her to the hospital for treatment and told staff that Alexia accidentally fell off his lap and hit her head. Police say Meineke told them he had lied to the hospital and now admits he punched Alexia in the back of her head.

On March 14, child welfare officials received an anonymous call regarding a strange bruise above Alexia's lip, court records say. A caseworker visited the home March 15 but could not determine the cause of the bruise. But Meineke later told police he bit the child because she would not stop crying.

Doctors took a second look at Alexia's Feb. 20 CAT scan and located a fracture on her skull, police said. Another scan performed March 19 found multiple skull fractures.

Alexia also has a broken rib and bite marks on her left thigh and left elbow, police said.

Meineke, of the 7300 block of Railhead Court, was charged with seven counts of felony battery. He could face 89 years in prison if he's convicted.

"Mr. Meineke told me that he wanted to go to jail immediately so he could begin to get help with his problems," Detective Sgt. Matthew Miller wrote in court documents.

"He told me he has anger control problems," Miller wrote. "He added that sometimes he wants to hurt people for no reason."
 
That is absolutely disgusting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
I just read this and it makes me so very sad for that poor little baby girl.

You are right, it isn't fair that so many couples struggle to conceive and someone like this can become a father so easily.
 

That is so sad - I will pray for this poor little girl.

Melinda
 
She has to know her darling boyfriend has major problems and she left a little baby in his care. Throw her in jail too!!
 
Poor little girl :( . I agree the mother should be charged as well.
 
I think we should toss his sorry @&# in a vat of boiling water. Im so sick of people hurting kids--their own babies--and other peoples kids. Those people should never be given a second chance. Its just disgusting :mad: :mad: :mad:
 
That is just awful.
It makes me SICK. DH & I struggle to have kids (we have been blessed with one, Thank God) but it just makes me sick that people like THAT can have kids, when there are thousands of people out there that struggle & would love to have a child to love :mad:
It is a very senitive subject for me.

I hope the slimball ROTS in prison!
How could a "grown" man bite & hit a BABY like that?!?!?!
AARRRGGGHHHH!!!!
And his "reasoning" because she was crying....did he really think biting her would make her stop?????

How STUPID!!!!!
 
That poor baby.....:(

The guy wants to be in jail to get help? He wants to hide there from the public.
 
Sounds as if the dad has been calling for help since admitting that he hit the child after her first hospital visit. It is awful that he let himself be alone with the child after that. This is one of the hazards of teen sex. Kids who are not mature enough to be parents. Now--baby's life ruined, daddy's life ruined, mommy's life seriously affected. Do our teens know the consequences of sex? This scenario is not uncommon. Immature parents (especially fathers) abuse their children quite often in this country.

I am not saying it is not possible for a young man to be a good father, but it seems when I hear about these crimes, a young father is the perpetrator. :( Very very sad.
 
:mad: :mad: :mad: I have to admit - I couldn't finish reading this story. It makes me so angry & upset. I agree, there are so many people who would give anything to have a baby and then there are people like them, It sickens me to no end.

When DS was born, we planned, took monthes to conceive, I was in labor for 42 hours, then a C-section. I remember the day after DS was born, it was all over the news about a girl who had a baby in the bathroom stall @ her prom and then killed it and put it in the tank of the toilet. I remember thinking - Why was she able to have natural? Why couldn't she be the one to have to have a c-section? at least then that baby still would've been alive and given an adoptive family a chance. I guess God has a reason for everything, but sometimes you just have to ask - WHY???
 
Scarlett, I just couldn't read this whole story. I breaks my heart and makes me feel ill to think about this :(
 
I didn't finish reading the story either, it made me too angry and sad. Stories like that make me sick to my stomach. :mad: :(
 













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