So Truth Comes Out..Arnold Schwarzenegger Has Other Child!

[shortbun]

I heard that she found out after he left office.

I have a feeling that there were numerous infidelities during the course of their marriage, but being raised a Kennedy, she probably figured that it was a given for a man to do this and that it was the woman's job to stand by her man.

Glad she put herself and her children first though and is getting out of that situation. Rumor has it that her children are behind her in her decision.

She is not just a Kennedy. She is a highly religious woman, raised firmly in the Catholic Church who made vows and tried very hard to honor them. She had children and she was thinking too, of them by trying to keep their family together. But this was a betrayal to the entire family and she is right to leave. I hope she burns his bottom. Nothing would make me happier than to see Maria set fire to a few Hummers with some expensive cigars on the seats.
The man is a pig.

 

[Swank]

Whoo's your Daddy and whaat does he do.

 

[Heidict]

She didn't stand by her man. She left her man, and good for her. I think it's ridiculous that women stand by their husband's sides during these news conferences while they say how "sorry" they are they got caught with their pants down.

Nope, she is leaving him now and I agree, good for her. Cheating is the worst thing that someone could do to their spouse. There is never a jusifiable reason for it. One of the lowest things you can do.

I just don't think that this is the first time that he has been with other women. There have been rumors and stories around for years that he had cheated on her.

Like I said, it was Arnold. All you Maria haters, 'well she IS a Kennedy' and so forth now need to adjust. No woman moves out of her own house unless she's been wronged and she is very angry. He's a has been action hero. That was my take on it and that's what it was.

I never could understand how anyone could hate and entire family. Just because they have the name Kennedy or came from their family line.

 

[Mama-san]

I'm really not terribly surprised by this news, based on his history of groping women. Without Maria, he would have never been governor. My heart goes out to her.

 

[luvmy3]

Nope, she is leaving him now and I agree, good for her. Cheating is the worst thing that someone could do to their spouse. There is never a jusifiable reason for it. One of the lowest things you can do.

I just don't think that this is the first time that he has been with other women. There have been rumors and stories around for years that he had cheated on her.

I agree, she may not have known about this boy, but they were married for 25 years, she's heard all the rumors, its not too far fetched to think that some were true and she knew about them. Personally, I don't care what a woman chooses when it comes to her cheating husband, if she wants to stand by him and save her family, thats her business and I hope it works out. If she decides to leave, then good for her too.

I never could understand how anyone could hate and entire family. Just because they have the name Kennedy or came from their family line.

That seems to be common in politics, and coming from both sides. I don't see alot of people hating whole average everyday families

 

[Uncle Remus]

That seems to be common in politics, and coming from both sides. I don't see alot of people hating whole average everyday families

I just don't wanna hear about the sanctity of marriage from anybody who doesn't practice the sanctity of marriage.

 

[lillygator]

Yep, if I found out my DH was cheating, I would feel betrayed by HIM. The "other woman" never made a commitment to me. Certainly what she did was wrong, but I don't get these people who direct all their anger at the person their spouse was cheating with (unless it was a friend or family member).

I guess in this case I feel a little diffferently, this woman was working for the and in their household (a part of the family) for 20 years...I would think she made a committment to the family upon hiring....guess it came with extra benefits.

Did they have a paternity test done? If she was married, how does she know he is the father?

 

[UConnJack]

Its really sad- Where I work is 95 percent male and it never ceases to amaze me the percentage of them that cheat- they way outnumber the non-cheaters!!

Amazing-are the men cheating alone? I would guess 95% of woman are with men who are cheating?? I guess I just don't get the math on this.

Presumably the women who sleep with these married men are not married or in a committed relationship themselves, so they are not technically "cheating," since they have no one to cheat on (other than themselves, but that's another story...).

Yes, but I think women who knowingly cheat with a married man should be criticized equally (and I think most do know). Not saying cheating is right, but to imply that men necessarily have less "respect" for marriage because they cheat more often is not really fair. Women who are cheating with a married man (and it must be the same number as the men who are cheating) have no more respect for marriage than the man.

The difference is that while men may compromise their morals to sleep around outside their marriage, women will often compromise theirs by cheating with a married man in hope of stealing them. Most won't admit it, but I would bet that most men would consider cheating (at least a one night stand kind of thing) if it was 100% guaranteed they would never be caught. I also believe that most women, if guaranteed to be successful, would consider stealing away a married man if they really wanted him. None of these actions are more justified than the other.

It all boils down to biology. The only thing that makes us different than animals is emotion and the societal benefits of marriage. I'm not anti-marriage by any means and am happy to be married, but to deny this would be ignorant, as is saying men, overall, are any less dedicated to marriage (not necessarily just their own) than women are.

BTW, I think Arnold is a schmuck for this. Just like Edwards and Tiger.

 

[luvmy3]

I just don't wanna hear about the sanctity of marriage from anybody who doesn't practice the sanctity of marriage.

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I have to agree, anyone who doesn't practice what the preach has no business preaching.

 

[Swank]

Did they have a paternity test done? If she was married, how does she know he is the father?

The kid has a gap in his front teeth.

 

[UConnJack]

I just don't wanna hear about the sanctity of marriage from anybody who doesn't practice the sanctity of marriage.

Absolutely. Even if I don't agree with someone's beliefs, or even think they are nuts for them, at least I can have some amount of respect for them. Hypocrites, on the other hand, I have no respect for.

 

[NaLisa]

I guess in this case I feel a little diffferently, this woman was working for the and in their household (a part of the family) for 20 years...I would think she made a committment to the family upon hiring....guess it came with extra benefits.

Did they have a paternity test done? If she was married, how does she know he is the father?

I was speaking in general about infidelity, not really this specific case. I agree that Maria Shriver was betrayed both by her husband and by the woman who worked for the family for 20 years. Again, though, he's the one who made an oath to Shriver and broke his vows, so I consider his betrayal of Shriver worse than hers. Similarly, the other woman's husband was betrayed by his wife, not by the Governator.

I personally know of two instances where wife found out husband cheated, decided to stay with husband but then went about trying to wreck other woman's life (basically stalking other woman). That I just don't get.

 

[luvmy3]

Yes, but I think women who knowingly cheat with a married man should be criticized equally (and I think most do know). Not saying cheating is right, but to imply that men necessarily have less "respect" for marriage because they cheat more often is not really fair. Women who are cheating with a married man (and it must be the same number as the men who are cheating) have no more respect for marriage than the man.

I totally disagree with that. The person (man or woman) who broke their marriage vows deserves way more criticism IMO. I don't expect every woman out there to respect marriage, however I certainly expect my dh to respect ours.

 

[ols386]

He's the John Edwards of the West coast.

Except that John Edwards' wife was dying.


I'm so sorry for Maria and her family.

She is a strong woman, and she will make it through this, and she will take care of her children.

 

[luvmy3]

Except that John Edwards' wife was dying.


I'm so sorry for Maria and her family.

She is a strong woman, and she will make it through this, and she will take care of her children.

As if cheating and fathering a child isn't bad enough, to do it while your wife dying. There is a special place downstairs reserved for people like that.

 

[Uncle Remus]

Absolutely. Even if I don't agree with someone's beliefs, or even think they are nuts for them, at least I can have some amount of respect for them. Hypocrites, on the other hand, I have no respect for.

Exactly!

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I have to agree, anyone who doesn't practice what the preach has no business preaching.

And it includes political figures, preachers 'n some of my neighbors.

I don't care who ya are, don't claim sanctity of marriage if you don't respect your marital vows.

 

[Uncle Remus]

Except that John Edwards' wife was dying.


I'm so sorry for Maria and her family.

She is a strong woman, and she will make it through this, and she will take care of her children.

He's SCUM!!!!

 

[tlbwriter]

I just don't wanna hear about the sanctity of marriage from anybody who doesn't practice the sanctity of marriage.

This!

Yes, but I think women who knowingly cheat with a married man should be criticized equally (and I think most do know).

Sure, I just wouldn't call them a "cheater" because they never broke a vow or promise. Doesn't mean carrying on with a married person is a good thing.

 

[RadioNate]

Yep, if I found out my DH was cheating, I would feel betrayed by HIM. The "other woman" never made a commitment to me. Certainly what she did was wrong, but I don't get these people who direct all their anger at the person their spouse was cheating with (unless it was a friend or family member).

Because they knew damn well that the person they were involved with was married and they could have said NO. While the spouse does deserve 95% of the blame, what happened to saying NO? I won't get involved with a married man. Sure, there might be someone else who would but maybe if everyone respected the vows of marriage wether they took them or not, then these married cheaters would have no one to cheat with.

Arnold, John Edwards, they are all disgusting.

 

[UConnJack]

I totally disagree with that. The person (man or woman) who broke their marriage vows deserves way more criticism IMO. I don't expect every woman out there to respect marriage, however I certainly expect my dh to respect ours.

Your husband would deserve more criticism from YOU, absolutetly. He betrayed you. But as a third party, I have no more respect for a woman cheating with a married man than I do for the man who is cheating.