So, I just got some news, and I'm not sure if I like it.

[Cassidy]

Well I lived in California for most of my life, and we moved here back in 2004.
My dad just gave me the lovely news that there's a big chance we're moving back, because of his job. Just this time it's in a better area, Newport.
I'm honestly not sure if I like this news. I've wanted to go back, but not for a lifetime.
But, there's a catch.
If we move, we're not taking my mother. My parents are getting divorced, my dad filed around August 10th, and it will be official on November 10th.
I told my dad there are three things I want. He said anything, because he knows what this will do to me.
I told him, if we move, we're buying a house with a pool.
Yeah, that's silly. Who cares.
The second thing I wanted, was to get into acting. He said yes. He knows how I feel toward acting, it's a passion.
The third thing, was to be able to fly back here whenever we get a chance. Every weekend, every other weekend, two week breaks, and summer.
He said yes.
But I'm not sure if that's enough. I'll have no one to talk too, and I'm not good at meeting new people. So starting a new school? Not the best idea.
My friends are my life right now.
He's flying to California next Friday to figure things out. As in the money situation, we'd be making over 20,000 dollars a month. Now he makes a little over two thousand. Yes, his job sucks.
I just don't know how to tell my friends. I'm scared that we will drift apart. I'm tearing up as I type this. I can't handle things like this, it's too big.
I don't know why I'm telling you this, I don't know any questions to ask.
I'm confused.
I'm not sure if I should tell them, or not.
"Hey! I'm moving to california, see you next summer!"
Yeah, perfect plan.

 

[AliceinHalloweentown]

Well, as someone who's moved 4 times in her life, let me try to offer some advice

I, too, had lived in California most my life (but the longest time was after my 3rd move, I was born there, sorry it's complicated ). I realize my situations are a little different, as the last time I've moved was when I was 11, but still.

I definitely think you should notify your friends, that way you all have time to tie up loose ends, and start figuring out how you're going to keep in touch. Admittedly, I haven't talked to my old best friends in years, except the one that lives on this side of the country. We meet every summer.

I won't lie and say you and you're friends will still be as close as you are right now, but there's no reason with facebook, e-mails, and texting you can't keep in touch, anyways.

I'm excited for you and I hope you find the adventure of moving a fun, exciting, and not-so-scary experience.

It might seem hard now, but before you know it your new life will be just as great as where you used to live.

Plus, you have the lucky chance to be able to go back whenever- I've never been back to the Bay Area.

 

[KidGoofy]

I would take full advantage of it...in California you can do anything. You say you are a singer...well you can do that there. And acting makes it even cooler. You totally can keep in touch with old friends because your dad will let you go back whenever. But you also get a new chance to re-invent yourself. And making new friends is easy...usually people come up to you. So think of the positives

 

[life of the party]

i would LOVE to be in your sittuation right now.
like, you have no idea.

i think you you make friends faster than you think.
what grade are you going into?


this job would be really good for your dad & the rest of your family.


if your friends are true friends you'll keep in touch.
you can get a webcam and video chat with them everynight .
you can also IM, e-mail, talk on the phone, text, etc.

i hope everything works out for you

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

I'd take the chance and go with your dad on those conditions.

I mean, I think in many ways you're really lucky. Some peoples parents split and they never get to visit.

Yes, you'll miss your friends but you can always keep in touch and visit. I mean, when you moved back in 2004, didn't you think "I'll never make new friends here"?

If you can make just ONE friend to get you through it, the rest is easier.


If I were you I'd go to California.

 

[AliceinHalloweentown]

I'd take the chance and go with your dad on those conditions.

I mean, I think in many ways you're really lucky. Some peoples parents split and they never get to visit.

Yes, you'll miss your friends but you can always keep in touch and visit. I mean, when you moved back in 2004, didn't you think "I'll never make new friends here"?

If you can make just ONE friend to get you through it, the rest is easier.


If I were you I'd go to California.

This is great advice.

I've got one friend now since I moved (coincidentally, also 2004), and she's all I need to get by now, and the one person who's kept my sanity these 5 years.

 

[BabyPiglet]

Are you sure you want to move with your dad? I mean, just make sure that's the right decision for YOU, and you're not just going because he'll be in California and making lots of money.

I think you're the only person who can decide what you should do. Just go with your heart. I'm sure you'll always have a home with your mom if you decide to go back to TN.

Good luck to you and your family.