So...about that guy

[Azure]

Remember that guy named "Adam". Well, I hope that he's not going back to school this year. If he is i'll seriously die. I never want to see him... don't ask me why but I just don't.

 

[Sparx]

Eh. I know how you feel. I've had some recent problems with this guy. I'm not going into details, but just think "stereotypical male" and multiply that by two. then youve got him. But I got over him fairly quickly for reasons that I am also not going into.

 

[Loves Disney]

This reminds me of something, heh. When I was a freshman, there was this sophomore who was pretty cute lol and to be honest, I found interest in him. I figured a guy like him couldn't like a freshman like me...later I noticed he tried finding reasons to talk to me...random reasons. He was on my bus. Randomly he'd ask what our homework was in a class and I'd answer. He complimented my drawings, randomly. I was a happy little freshman lol. He was the only guy I've ever known who actually looked straight at me for a while in the eyes. And he smiled.

Then I embarrassed myself so bad in front of him, that even now (as a senior) I still bang my head over it. However, "luck" would have it, he never returned to the school as he had to move for emergency reasons. I never saw him again and I don't know how that worked out. I loved it then...but I wish SOOO badly that I knew how he took that day. I still bang myself over that moment even now, simply because I'm not sure if he thought ill of me or not. I really, really wish he was at the school so I can just resolve the matter and not feel horrible about it anymore.

 

[AllyGirlie]

Ah Mel, more Adam troubles? Oh well maybe he won't return and it'll be better..

 

[Babyjustrun]

I hope everything works out, or he won't come back.

This reminds me of something, heh. When I was a freshman, there was this sophomore who was pretty cute lol and to be honest, I found interest in him. I figured a guy like him couldn't like a freshman like me...later I noticed he tried finding reasons to talk to me...random reasons. He was on my bus. Randomly he'd ask what our homework was in a class and I'd answer. He complimented my drawings, randomly. I was a happy little freshman lol. He was the only guy I've ever known who actually looked straight at me for a while in the eyes. And he smiled.

Then I embarrassed myself so bad in front of him, that even now (as a senior) I still bang my head over it. However, "luck" would have it, he never returned to the school as he had to move for emergency reasons. I never saw him again and I don't know how that worked out. I loved it then...but I wish SOOO badly that I knew how he took that day. I still bang myself over that moment even now, simply because I'm not sure if he thought ill of me or not. I really, really wish he was at the school so I can just resolve the matter and not feel horrible about it anymore.

I have a similar problem, but I didn't exactly embarass myself.
There was a guy I kind of liked, and I know he liked me back and he also moved away. The only chance I get to see him is on Saturday's because he only come home on weekends =(
The fact that I don't know how he felt about me screws with my mind, and the fact that I've got a crush on another guy doesn't help. It's kind of like, wait & see if he tries to talk to me, or keep on hoping on this crush that I've had forever. They're both great guys, and it's confusing.

 

[MissPotatoHead]

I hope everything works out, or he won't come back.



I have a similar problem, but I didn't exactly embarass myself.
There was a guy I kind of liked, and I know he liked me back and he also moved away. The only chance I get to see him is on Saturday's because he only come home on weekends =(
The fact that I don't know how he felt about me screws with my mind, and the fact that I've got a crush on another guy doesn't help. It's kind of like, wait & see if he tries to talk to me, or keep on hoping on this crush that I've had forever. They're both great guys, and it's confusing.

so...find out a lot of stuff about both...or even go out with both and then see you you like better. Remember...some ice-creams look good, but taste gross. Meaning...lol...crazy saying - i know...lol Meaning that looks aren't everything. Read my saying below my name...you'll see what I mean...but in that case...the treasure is his personality. good luck!! LOL

 

[Babyjustrun]

Oh, I know what you mean.
I've always looked at the personality. As I said, they're both great guys that make me smile and feel better.
This year I'm focusing towards me crush (depending on whether or not he's in my class) as I am capable of making friends with him, and he's single now. When I was ready to ask him out last year, he got a girlfriend. I had been too late.

The second guy I had spent the last few days of school with. He's always been able to make me smile, but we really got to know each other the last few days. One of the days we went on a field trip, we spent the entire time together. And heck, it felt nice to have a guy to talk to instead of annoying yappy girls.

Thanks for the advice though.

 

[Azure]

I swear I wanted to forget him...but I can't for some reason

 

[Babyjustrun]

I swear I wanted to forget him...but I can't for some reason

This is probably not my place to say this but..

If if you can't get him out of her head, maybe he's meant to be there.

It's cheesy xD I know.

 

[Azure]

I don't know. I mean i've heard the saying "When you know, you know" but I don't know, if it's just me falling in love with the thought of falling in love.

 

[Babyjustrun]

I don't know. I mean i've heard the saying "When you know, you know" but I don't know, if it's just me falling in love with the thought of falling in love.

Well, I won't say anything more now.
It's not my place, and I don't know much about the situation to give anymore advice.
But you're going to think about it, and you just can't push a problem away. It's going to come back.

 

[MissPotatoHead]

He's always been able to make me smile, but we really got to know each other the last few days. One of the days we went on a field trip, we spent the entire time together. And heck, it felt nice to have a guy to talk to instead of annoying yappy girls.

so tell him that. say,"Look, you can always make me smile and I love it when we can get to know each other when it's just you and i. do you think that i can be like that once more...possibly more than once?"

he'll think it's really sweet!!!!

- steph -

 

[Azure]

It's like the kind of guy that gives you butterflies in your stomach everytime he walks by you.

 

[Babyjustrun]

I dunno if I can do that.
I'm going to wait a while until I say something like that to him. It's good advice, but I need to talk to him more on MSN before I could actually ask him to meet up. It's kind of weird. I wish he wasn't going so far away for school when in reality he doesn't live far away at all.

It's like the kind of guy that gives you butterflies in your stomach everytime he walks by you.

Some people call this sort of thing a crush. I know I used the word crush to describe the guy I like, but that's not exactly it. It's not a crush. Most people I know who have crushes hardly know the guy and are basing him on looks. But if you get butterflies in your stomach when he's around and you just feel right around him (of course it's awkward or you feel nervous) these feelings aren't a crush, but they aren't love either. It's that in between spot that you're at before you actually decide to make the move on him. Not everything is based on looks, but you aren't in love because you're not in a relationship.
did that make any sense?

You said that you think it might be you just falling in love with the idea of falling in love. Maybe it is, but I don't think it's like you just want a relationship, you want to fall in love, and you happen to have feelings for this guy. So it's not just you saying 'I want to be in love.'

and I have no idea if that made sense either.

 

[Lil_Tink]

Well about you debate of him not going to your school if you like him, that could actually just work out better in the long run, or it has for me atleast. I met this great guy at water polo, but he lives a hour away, but its nice because we can kinda imagine the good sides of eachother without having to see eachother day after day and having all of the school pressuring us and things like that.

 

[Lil_Tink]

But good luck with all the guys you guys have your eyes on. From what Ive seen everyone on here is very pretty and have good personallitys and any guy would be lucky to have them.