Couldn't agree more, seems someone likes a little drama.

Why exactly do you care what SIL has to say? Don't let her opinions or anyone elses influence your life direction. You and your family steer the ship. What if this group of strangers tells you, yes in fact it will spoil your child? What are you going to do, sell your DVC ? Didn't think so, so why post? Thanks JimMia for seeing through this one.
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