We DID leave. We DID tell staff. When I went back (to one of the stores I had informed of the mis -use of fitting room rules)for another item weeks later for myself, I walked into the ladies fitting room at a department store to try on a dress for a bridal shower. Not a unisex fitting room, but htere was a guy spread out laying on the floor telling his GF or whoever, that she needs to try the bikini back on. I said, you are not allowed in here, got a blank stare. I called out to the girl in the stall and said that her male friend was not allowed in there. I got a response of a giggle and then silence, so I and left. I told the clerk about this and left the store. Matter of fact, the swim suit area was across the store from the dresses, so why were they in that one? More than likely becasue they KNEW that he was not alloweed and used a more out of the way fitting room. I had an item that I found for my needs, hopefully and needed to try it on to make sure from all angles it was going to be nice. So I would have needed to step out of the stall to the 3 way mirror, passing the guy spread across the floor. If you read my first post, there are 5 department stores that carry nicer items/ dresses that we shop at. We encountered a male(s) at ALL of them when DD was dress shopping. She is petite and needs a 3 way mirror and platform to check length etc. Those mirrors are NOT in the stalls. At least at our stores. Special occasion dresses are NOT returnable at many of our stores. You have to decide there, so making sure it is right is pretty much a decision made in the fitting room. I realized it was Prom so figured that was why boys were along, However, we saw men of ALL ages in those rooms. So it is a general breaking of the rules across the board. NOt a certain age group. By the way, my DD does not walk around "scantily clad". and in OUR case it was her and I who were offended. We were not the rule breakers, yet we left as the patrons nor the clerk did anything about our concerns. That was bad enough and frustrating. Believe me, if gas were not so high, we would travel the 20 miles to another mall.
So teens have less privacy rights than other folks?
I would deal with it in Europe as that is the way" there.That is the whole point. Follow the rules of the place you are in. Bicker is right. Hopefully some of this discussion will open the eyes to those who are taking liberty and not following rules. Especially when it comes to privacy. Again, if you want mixed company in the fitting rooms, shop in unisex fitting room stores, and follow the rules in the single sex ones.
Mods, please feel free to lock this...it is not heading anywhere helpful.