ValpoCory
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This was an interesting discussion on another DIS board, and one of the mods asked that it be moved here. The question ... should parents be able to force their adult children to vacation with them, children "who have made it clear they do not want to go", and then expect it to go pleasantly?
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It's also interesting that someone's daughter was called "rude/ungrateful/self-centered" and the parent didn't object.
So what's your opinion? Was this more the child's fault for still going after making it clear they did not want to go, and are they deservedly call rude, ungrateful, and self-centered? Or is this more the parent's fault, for strong-arming this situation into existence?
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You cannot force people, even members of your own family, to enjoy Disneyland. Knowing this, do not purchase plane tickets and park tickets for adult children who have made it clear they do not want to go. They just might pack it in after one day and fly home on their own.
Big lesson learned, won't do that again! (Can laugh about it now)
Wow, I am glad you can laugh now, and I certainly hope there is "more to the story", as they say. Because I can't IMAGINE anyone, much less one's own offspring, being this rude/ungrateful/self-centered. More power to you for being able to laugh about it!
This was at the end of a terrible, horrible summer where our (then 22 year old) daughter had become enmeshed with a not-so-good boyfriend. She was supposed to return to college at the end of August, and we went to Disneyland at the beginning of August. During that trip, before she came home, she told us she was dropping out of college as well.
Four years later, our relationship is slowly being rebuilt, but it is not the same as it was before that summer. I'm not sure that we laugh about it...but we're not as bitter as we once were.
BTDT...she hasn't been on vacation with us since, and we haven't attempted to see if she wants to go.
The following summer...the other four of us took a "makeup" trip to Disneyland. We spent 7 days in the park and did every single thing, it was incredible.
It's also interesting that someone's daughter was called "rude/ungrateful/self-centered" and the parent didn't object.
So what's your opinion? Was this more the child's fault for still going after making it clear they did not want to go, and are they deservedly call rude, ungrateful, and self-centered? Or is this more the parent's fault, for strong-arming this situation into existence?