We're excited, too! We are going to Disney World first for a few days. I really loved the cruise part last time, and wanted to take a longer one, but FIL was on a "boat" coming home from Korea, and didn't really want to spend that long on a "boat." Hope he likes it - I think he'll be surprised at how nice it is.
When does your daughter turn 12? Going into 5th grade or 6th?