Wow that is crazy expensive. I think if you go to the Empress for tea directly its more like $65/pp (at least it was last time I was there - though reservations were necessary and were made far in advance during busy season). And there's a bunch of places that do tea that are wonderful for more like $20-$30pp that have architecture that is not as beautiful but food that is much tastier IMHO. If I have time there's one right by the dock in a green building that had the best clotted cream though I don't remember the name I can see the location in my head. Maybe I'll see if I can find it on a digital map.
As long as we're talking about Victoria excursions, is anybody else interested in the Butchart & Butterfly Garden one? That's at the top of my list and since Disney is saying 'limited availability - books fast' I was thinking if its sold out by the 75 day mark when I can book (or if I want to go cheaper) there are private tour companies that will sell you the same thing (essentially transportation + tickets) for about 30% less than Disney, only Disney won't hold the ship for somebody if outside tour companies somehow bring one back later than expected. But if there were a group of us that wanted to go the non-Disney-vendor route we could probably get an even nicer group rate, and the vendors usually deal with cruise people so they must make sure to have mechanisms to always return guests to ships in time. So let me know if anybody's interested and we can try to narrow down the other-vendor tour operators once we get some feedback from the Alaska folk.
Haven't looked at Ensenada excursions yet - DH just says he wants to drink & buy tequila when he's in Mexico, so I'll have to look this weekend at the excursions and see what the possibilities are that might accommodate his wants.