LisaTC
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Even after watching 'Waiting' I've never had issues with that. I've worked at a restaurant and nothing untoward has happened to anything that was ever sent back. We had a gentleman complain that his steak was overcooked (even though it was was bleeding all over the plate, but ok) and sent it back twice. He basically wanted it quickly seared and then served pretty much raw. The only issue was the fact that it was more undercooked than we were supposed to serve, but he finally got what he wanted!
Myself included, I worked for 5 years in a fine dining restaurant and never encountered this. First I always shared with the new servers, never take it personally, you didn't cook it, always be empathetic. People should get what they pay for. The kitchen can rant and rave, but they usually didn't. I've had people send back prime rib - HOUSE CUT, perfection, because it wasn't want they wanted - many people truly do not know what medium rare is! I've had people send back expensive bottles of wine for who knows why, but the bottom line is, dining is a paid for experience and you should be at the very least, pleasantly satisfied.
I'm more lenient sometimes and more picky at others, I know how things should come out and when it is the servers fault and when it is the kitchens. I wouldn't hesitate sending back an expensive entree not prepared as described or requested.